Is it my fault that my parents argued all the time and now hate each other?

Its never your fault that your parents argue. Marriages and relationships have UPS and downs and sometimes, fights happen. They also may turn away from each other. Dont think its your fault, because its not. I promise.

Of course not!

Of course not, you cannot blame yourself for your parents' crumbling relationship. Usually people have problems within themselves and that is the root of hate, not a third party.

No it is not your fault at all. Parents relationships are often strained by many other pressures, such as work or money- every adult has these issues at some point.

Definitely not! People, including parents, argue all the time and it has nothing to do with the children. Sometimes, there's just misunderstandings and they don't stop to see how it is affecting everyone around them,

We can never be responsible for how other people feel. We sometimes have trouble controlling our own feelings. We can take responsibility for our actions. My parents fought a lot and I felt I was responsible for a long time and for a lot of reasons. The truth is that it isn't fair of them to fight and use their anger against one another because it hurts you. Love is a natural feeling. We have to work hard to learn to hate and once we do we have to work even harder to learn to stop. How other's feel, even people you care a lot about, isn't your responsibility. Adults are responsible for how they express their feelings. Find a safe person to talk to about your feelings. You don't have to carry their anger yourself. I hope this helps. I wish you peace. ~J

This is a common thought in kids who's parents are going through a difficult time. Adults in a long term relationship always have rough patches and kids are unlikely to be the fault of this so don't feel like it's your fault. It's a difficult situation and nobody likes hearing arguments, certainly not from your own parents but again, this is not uncommon and I am sure they will find a way to resolve it so give them some time. It can also help to talk about this with a family member who knows your parents.

Not at all. Parents argue, bicker, fight, discuss and resolve problems in a number of different ways. Whatever is happening at any given time has nothing to do with you. Even if it is about something you did and they have a disagreement about it, they'll be angry at the outcome of the discussion not about the action the discussion was about. I used to hear my parents argue all the time before the divorce and at the time I had thought the same, I must have done something. Reality was, they were angry at each other and even if my name was mentioned, they were upset with each other and failed to find a compromise or resolution. Some couples don't know "how to fight" in a way that reaches a calm understanding or resolution. Please remember, never your fault, they are angry at the situation.

No, it is not your fault, sometimes it just happens with couples that they argue and split up after that.

No, it is absolutely NOT your fault! They both love you, but their arguments are between themselves only. It doesn't matter what they're arguing over, it is purely between them and their opinions clashing. If you're really worried, maybe go speak to both of them (separately or together, whatever you feel more comfortable with) when everyone is calm, and tell them how you feel. That could help with them not arguing when they're around you. Good luck, and remember, you are loved!!!