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Is it my fault that my parents argued all the time and now hate each other?

Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on May 31, 2015
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It isn't your fault at all. Your parents have issues between them and they maybe just didn't fit together, and that isn't your fault it didnt work out.
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Profile: GentleStrength
GentleStrength on Jun 7, 2015
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No. That in itself is a complete answer. It's not your fault. Relationships are complicated and whatever happens between your parents is between them, and it's not your fault. Always remember that even though they might not love each other anymore, they still love you.
Profile: grayWolf19
grayWolf19 on Apr 28, 2015
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No it isnt. We play a big part in our parents life, but that does not make us responsible of them. They are grown ups and thus are the owners of their own decisions and actions. You are your own person and should never feel like you caused someone elses actions.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on May 14, 2015
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no it is completely not your fault that they argue with each other and hate each other... its their personal thing and you need not to blame yourself
Profile: gracefulWaterfall69
gracefulWaterfall69 on Apr 7, 2015
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I wouldn't think that you had much to do with the arguing, parents usually argue over other things such as finances, bills, or in worse case scenario, about other people.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jun 29, 2015
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It's never your fault so don't blame yourself. Everyone has arguments so your parents are no different and it's not something you should be afraid about. I hope things get better soon
Profile: contentedKitty23
contentedKitty23 on Jul 20, 2015
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No, that is absolutely not your fault. Please don't feel guilty about it. You did nothing wrong at all.
Profile: readerandwriter
readerandwriter on Sep 8, 2015
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I'm sure you've heard this before, but it really is true: no. Your parents argued for their own reasons, not because of you.
Profile: ErinW
ErinW on Sep 15, 2015
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No. I could not say no enough. There is no situation where the answer is anything but a flat and firm no.
Profile: kindMoment44
kindMoment44 on Oct 27, 2015
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No, it is completely down to your parents. If your parents are arguing. it is because they are having disagreements. Don't scape goat yourself. And it would only be natural that you get caught up in these disagreements time to time, because you are an important part of their life. But don't blame yourself for getting caught up in it, because it is not your fault.
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