Is it my fault that my parents argue all the time?
avanef
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May 1, 2017
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I don't think so. Sometimes parents just bundle up a lot of stress and make it seem like they're taking it out on you, but that's not the case. If they're fighting a lot it's just stress coming to the surface of things. If you want to somehow help them and all, talk to them and everything. Make sure you treat them nicely because that'll make them feel better about things. Just be there for them as well.
samanthaslot97
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Feb 8, 2015
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Of course not. A lot of people go through this and tend to blame themselves as they are in the middle of the conflict, but that definitely does not mean you are the cause of this.
Poland02
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Jan 15, 2015
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It is not your fault that your parents argue all the time. May times it is because they are unhappy with something in their own life that cause them to fight. Also being that we are only human there will be times when parents don't see eye to eye. However, that has nothing to do with their kids.
KingOfTheFranks
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Jul 13, 2015
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There are a lot of factors involved in why parents argue. It's rare that it's about you as a person. It's good to try and remember that your parents aren't just your parents - They are also friends and children and colleagues just like you and just because they argue while you are there, it doesn't mean that it's because of you :D
originalMusic45
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Nov 28, 2017
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Mom and Dad argued about nothing at all sometimes, and I could normally stay outside of it but other times I just wanted to say "Stop! Please!", and when I did it suddenly became about me being the cause of whatever it was they were arguing about. Took me a long time to realize this was their stuff and nothing to do with me, and the reason they turned on me was so they wouldn't have to deal with the huge problems they had. (They ended up divorced, but left me with the emotional scars...)
Anonymous
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Dec 14, 2015
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No - although it may certainly feel that way. And sometimes they may actually say that to you. But it's about them - not you.
Anonymous
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Apr 3, 2015
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No. Its never your fault. If your parents are arguing then they are arguing over something between them. Nothing involving you
joyfulRainbow96
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May 3, 2015
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No it shouldn't be unless it's about you other then that let your parents deal with there problems .
nancyb03
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May 20, 2015
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though it may feel that way, it isn't your fault. relationships are super complicated. people have differences in opinions, discipline styles, approach to conversations/situations...there are so many variables when communicating with someone. other factors like family members or friends, work, financial situations can all cause tons of stress and anxiety...making it hard to deal with the day-to-day things that may seem small. most parents don't want to burden their kids with what is causing them stress or anxiety, making it hard to figure out exactly what's wrong.
mahta
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May 24, 2015
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it is not. althought the topic of their arguments is important, what makes you think that it is your fault? feel free to message me
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