I'm embarrassed by my family. We don't have money like my friends, what should I do?
Anonymous
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Dec 6, 2014
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I wouldn't worry about it, my family doesn't have the money like my friends do but i don't worry about it. Life is hard on your parents they may be struggling...
Bigheart4all
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Oct 24, 2015
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just because someone is richer than you doesn't mean they are better than you. Having to work for what you want makes it worth while and you feel better about yourself knowing that the reward was worth more than it was valued. Social classes make it hard for people to accept lower classes but true friends and classmates of the like will always be there for you no matter how rich/poor you are.
Anonymous
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Nov 28, 2015
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It is only natural that one wants to fit in when it comes to society. Especially when your peers are from relatively well to do backgrounds. You see what their lifestyle is like and sometimes become intimidated or weary of it because you feel your family isn't "good enough". One thing you should consider is, your family does whatever they can for you and you can't ignore that. They're the people who will stand by you when no one else does. The other thing is that, if these peers are friends with you based on pure material interests, then you can't really call them friends because friendship is based on how much you can connect with each other. It's based on trust and affection for one another. So really, try to see the good side to your life and the things you have. They might not be a lot to you but those are the things that are probably precious to someone else. So count your blessings :)
Anonymous
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Dec 6, 2014
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Have friends and having friends is good, but friends will never stay with you for your whole life there are some, but those some are jewels who will understand your situation and would never make you feel that you money is the reason for your friendship to be good or not. Parents and family will always be with you even when your friends would leave so become their support and raise yourself to the greatness of not getting affected by who has less money or who has more money. Money never describe your life to be lived happily or not. Its happiness that will describe your life :) and its true money cannot buy you happiness it can only bring comfort and if you are having a phone or a laptop or anything then you are already enjoying comfort in your life. Live life by watching the people who,are below you and be thankful for where you are, if you want to have money then there is only one way to get it work hard and make money and enjoy and make your parents feel proud
PoppyW
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Jan 4, 2015
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I grew up with my mum failing her successful business and had to live off my relatives' help. I felt embarrassed too, especially when you are at school and you cannot afford to buy things or you don't have many clothes to wear (thus wearing the same clothes everyday, etc.). But now I have realised that it made me stronger and appreciate the things and people around me more than people I see day in, and day out. When we face the problem and accepting it and then set out a plan to make things better, we will eventually get rid of the feeling of being embarrassed that we are not born into a much more fortunate circumstances.
Anonymous
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Mar 22, 2015
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Tell more about your life stories to your friends, most of whom wouldn't have gone through what your family has and would understand you better. :)
FlyingSunshine
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Aug 21, 2015
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there is no need of any embarassment.. because if your parents doesnt have any money.. you gotta hardwork better earn the money and prove it..
Anonymous
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Nov 19, 2015
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Don't be embarrassed, if they don't like you for your family not having money, don't be friends with them.
Money is not life
As long as there is love somewhere in your family, your family is complete.
Make the most out of everything you have- that is happiness
Take care and I love you
interestingBerry24
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Nov 21, 2015
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Never be like this. I'm sure your parents have worked very hard to make your life good. They are the people who will always love you.
Anonymous
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Dec 18, 2014
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It can be really hard when your family is struggling for money and you want to still fit in. Maybe try to arrange days out with your friends where you don't have to spend much money? Shopping in thrift stores can be useful, sometimes people donate high end clothing, you just have to know what to look for :) Try to be proud of what you have, a positive 'i dont care what you think about me' attitude can go a long way
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