I'm cheating on my husband or wife. Am I a bad person?

I wouldn't say that you are a bad person, but it would be wise to to tell your spouse. Cheating isn't okay, but it doesn't make you a bad person.

i don't think your a bad person i think we make bad decisions, but i also believe that we can be forgiven now does that mean that the ones we love are going to continue to be by our sides probably not but we can be forgiven and remember most harsh things are said in anger we have to give them time to process and begin the forgiveness part

Beyond good and bad, you are a person, and as a person you will make mistakes that can hurt yourself or others. But instead of placing a value judgement, how about exploring how cheating affects you, how you feel about yourself, and from there determine if it something you really want to be doing?

Marriage is a bond between 2 people you took for a reason it doesnt make you a bad person but its also not a good thing if you are unhappy with your relationship then its important to work out your differences before you make a rash decision but but you must admit the mistake before it blows up in a bad way you wont be able to recover from

no you are not bad its just circumstances are bad. but its time to realize that you are doing something wrong which you both do not deserve. its time to stop cheating on him and need to talk to him/her. if you do not find any reason to be with him or her just discuss this and try to get out of this relation peacefully and if you do not want to loss him/her then stop doing such thing which will give you nothing but shame.

I can't define you as a person for a single action - however what you're doing is wrong. Your wife or husband deserves your loyalty. If you cannot bring yourself to love him/her enough to be faithful, then why pretend? You have to come clean about your actions and do what's best for the both of you, that may mean ending the relationship.

You are being dishonest. When you make vows you should honor them. However , One bad thing you do in life can't erase the all goodness in you. You just need to fix this issue.

Ask your Conscience. You know better than anyone else. Tell your wife about this. And if you feel very bad seeing her state after telling this then you are cheating her and yourself.

You are not a bad person but rather in a troubled state. The act of cheating means that something is not quite going right in your life or relationship. You have to figure out what the problem is that you're having and really ask yourself, "Why am I cheating?". Their could be a lot of different reasons but whatever the reason may be, it needs a solution. Weather its relationship problems, addiction problems, etc. If you have to remove yourself from an environment or seek help, that is totally fine to do.

Cheating is almost never okay, but there are many circumstances that I haven't really thought of. You aren't necessarily a bad person, but if you love your spouse it's probably not very mindful of you to have an affair with someone else.