I'm cheating on my husband or wife. Am I a bad person?
Anonymous
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Nov 11, 2015
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Cheating is necessarIly good nor bad, be honest with them. Be open have your been going through some mental issues that made you do this? Unsatisfied with your relationship? Be open with your spouse
AlwaysPeace34
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Nov 11, 2015
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No you are not a bad person just realize that what you are doing can and will effect the trust in your household. And what you are doing doesn't only effect your relationship it effects your families perception of the kind of person you turned into or are currently. Just know you can still change
HelpWisely
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Nov 11, 2015
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Not at all. It is not about good or bad but the choices you make and how you feel about it. You have your reasons for doing something, just as others have reasons for doing what they do. Every action has a matching consequence.
friendlyStrawberry98
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Nov 11, 2015
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Although adultery is seen as 'bad' it isn't always. If you are unhappy with your partner and have found someone else to be happy with then that doesn't make you a bad person, as long as you tell your partner as it is only fair to them. Cheating is called bad when you do just for personal pleasure and string along your partner.
Anonymous
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Nov 11, 2015
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Not necessarily a bad person but have made a poor decision and have not considered your husband's or wife's feelings. If the marriage isn't going well it would be best to divorce and move on to other people,now if there are children involved,that's a different matter.
Anonymous
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Nov 11, 2015
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Well, it wouldn't hurt if you were more honest with yourself. Love means cherish, not occupy. If you don't love him / her, why pretend. Do you expect the golden globe for best acting, or something?
Of course, i wonder about a person, who doesn't notice that he / she isn't loved at all. And about the other one, who doesn't care, that you have a spouse. Who didn't care to notice. I wonder what they want to get out of their lives. Time is ticking, you know. You could start anew today.
Leslienessa
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Nov 11, 2015
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I dont think thats a question you can answer in general.It depends on the specific situation on the couple and the people who are involved.However, you should probably change something about the situation.
Anonymous
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Nov 11, 2015
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I would first analyze why do you think you are being unfaithful. Then, try to look at the big picture and see if you would be better off without your spouse as commitment is a oath of marriage.
fancifulFlower65
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Nov 11, 2015
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I don't think people should think cheaters are bad people. I think they should reflect about why they are doing it and if there could be something done to stop it.
HonestPumpkin637
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Nov 11, 2015
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It really depends on your relationship with your husband or wife. If your partner is a good person they don't deserve to be cheeted on and in that case you are the one who is bad but if you have serious relationship issues and your parter is also cheeting on you and is the one to blame you are not such a bad person but it doesn't make you a good person either. You really have to talk and resolve your issues with your partner before starting another relationship whether it's emotional or sexual
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