I'm cheating on my husband or wife. Am I a bad person?

Depende. Crees que lo eres? . lo que crees creas. Lo que importa es tu realidad subjetiva, lo que tu interpretes y como te aceptes tú.

Whether you're a bad person or not is irrelevant. You are, even if your partner isn't aware of your infidelity, hurting your relationship, yourself, and your partner. Being in this situation isn't easy, and it doesn't actually matter if you're to be blamed or not. This is an unstable situation which will most likely end badly, the only thing to do is to put it to an end, one way or another. Think it through, think about what you really want, why you're looking elsewhere. This is how you control the damage, to yourself, and to others.

No, you can't judge yourself this way. Everybody makes mistakes. Maybe cheating was an effect of lack of trust or some other important issue you're struggling with

I think it is not okay to cheat on him or her. You trust eachother so when you cheat on someone, that trust goes away!

Depends on what you define as bad. But what you're doing is completely wrong, and you need to either stop or divorce your spouse because you are betraying their trust in the worst of ways. If this is as a revenge for something I understand, but it's still wrong and you need to sort it out in a different way.

Without trying to judge or justify this, I do not think that it automatically makes you a bad person overall. It is more like a consequence of a problematic relationship. What is important about it is the fact that you are abuse his or her trust in you and that you have to think about the question if you want to keep up the relationship - resulting in speaking with your partner, confessing, trying to find solutions to your problems. Or you end the relationship and do whatever makes you more happy. But if you avoid this question, you are not only letting down your partner, but eventually also yourself.

Of course not! Many adults cheat when they are hiding emotions from their spouse. I recommend coming out to your spouse and telling them what you did, and try to fix it

Not necessarily a bad person but honesty all round would make the situation much easier for everyone involved.

A person cant be 100% bad or 100% good. Just dont let it go more bad than good, especially by cheating the person you swore to be loyal to. This was to answer your question. Now I suggest you divorce if you want to meet other people.

Not necessarily, although I would advise against it the best thing you could do is come clean about what happened, and hope for the best.