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I'm cheating on my husband or wife. Am I a bad person?

Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Nov 7, 2015
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yes you are remember what you promised when you married you vows should be taken seriously if you are going to cheat you were not ready to get married
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Profile: 4CinderandSage
4CinderandSage on Nov 7, 2015
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You're not bad, but you're certaintly not an honest person. Honesty is an attractive trait and cheating is a reflection of bad morals. Perhaps it's time to be honest with yourself and your family.
Profile: Hopegrace15
Hopegrace15 on Nov 7, 2015
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A lot of people cheat. On that basis one cannot label a person as good or bad. We are all humans and we make mistakes. However you need to do some introspection and ask yourself why you are doing it and would it be okay if your spouse does the same ( i guess it would'nt as we all expect honesty and loyalty) It's always better to make up you mind and decide with whom you want to be and come clean. This way the hurt will be less and your conscience will be clear. Hope this helps
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Nov 7, 2015
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you must have a reason for cheating. If you aren't happy with your relationship, talk it out with your significant other. Don't go to the extent of cheating. It's never a good idea.
Profile: LightlyLeah89
LightlyLeah89 on Nov 7, 2015
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You aren't a bad person, but you made a bad choice. We all makes mistakes, what matters is that we learn and grow as we go along.
Profile: bountifulMemory59
bountifulMemory59 on Nov 8, 2015
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Nothing is ever straight forward or just black and white I'm sure your not a bad person but it may be kinder to either stop cheating... Unless there is a reason you can't? And if you don't feel it's something you can stop tell your husband Is there reasons within your relationship why you felt like you needed to cheat maybe it would be good to work on that? There is couples councillors if you feel that could help Please feel free to connect with a listener if you would like to talk about things further
Profile: qx5ms
qx5ms on Nov 11, 2015
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If that is what you think. You are a bad person if you think you are one. And if what you are doing is for your own happiness, then no, you are not a bad person. It is just the path you have chosen is wrong.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Nov 11, 2015
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Yes. Yes. Yes. Yes. Yes. Yes. Yes. Yes. Yes. Yes. Yes. Yes. Yes. Yes. Yes. Yes. Yes. Yes. Yes. Yes.
Profile: Cosmiclover01
Cosmiclover01 on Dec 3, 2015
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The actions we all make all come with an outcome/consequence. But it's about how we choose to reflect upon our mistakes and doings that define who we are as people.
Profile: beautifulFaith43
beautifulFaith43 on Nov 8, 2015
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No you may be just lonely or may feel like you need company. However it is never worth losing your husband or wife over it if you want the relationship to last. Always think about the consequences that may arise and always think about your actions before doing them.
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