I'm cheating on my husband or wife. Am I a bad person?

Absolutely not. Cheating is a complicated issue that can cause pain, anxiety and shame for a lot of people, but that doesn't make anyone involved bad. In fact, one of the painful things about seeing someone outside your relationship is it is often isolating. It is hard to find someone to talk about it without feeling judged.

It doesn't mean your a bad person per say but in the grand scheme of things it doesn't look good on you or your "partner" whoever that may be. But whatever happens I just hope you meet someone who cares about you and respects you. Because at the end of the day there is someone out there for all of us some may have gotten lucky and met our special someone and some haven't but that's ok. There's plenty of fish in the sea as I always say. Love is beautiful thing and when you experience it for real you never want it to end.