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I'm cheating on my husband or wife. Am I a bad person?

Profile: peacefulBlossom75
peacefulBlossom75 on Nov 28, 2015
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No you aren't a bad person. How has your relationship with your significant other been up until this point?
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Profile: lucasatohan
lucasatohan on Nov 28, 2015
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Not a good person, but not a bad one. If you are cheatting on someone, why are you still with that person? If you are cheatting is because you are bored, tired or whatever of that person.
Profile: AlwaysAndForever1
AlwaysAndForever1 on Nov 29, 2015
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All depends: Are you not feeling loved? Wanted? Needed? Everyone needs someone! Of course you're not
Profile: Mi1zen
Mi1zen on Dec 2, 2015
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Your only a bad person if you believe your doing wrong. In my opinion it's just a state of mind, just like a husband abusing his wife, he may not see it as wrong, and therefore to him he's not doing wrong.
Profile: victoriousSong4
victoriousSong4 on Dec 2, 2015
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No, I don't believe there is truly any bad people in the world. Where all just people and sometimes as human beings we make mistakes and make bad choices. But we live and we learn and ultimately we make the decision we feel is right for us and our life. everybody perception, belief system, morals and values is different.
Profile: DunnTheHelpo
DunnTheHelpo on Dec 5, 2015
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You aren't a bad person, your heart just got lost. Anyways if he doesn't make you happy enough to be with him or her, and only him or her, you shouldn't be married anymore.
Profile: HinosEill
HinosEill on Dec 14, 2015
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No, you are not. Just confused with your feelings. I`d suggest talking to your husband/wife and discussing your feelings with them. Seems plain and obvious, but it is better then decieving them.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Dec 15, 2015
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I don't think you're a bad person. But you will hurt them if they ever find out. And before you get badly hurt from it i think you should figure out what you want to do, and who you want to be with before things get really bad.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Mar 29, 2016
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It doesnt make you a bad person. It just means there are some serious issues in your relationship that need to be worked on.
Profile: SweetLittleBear92
SweetLittleBear92 on Sep 5, 2016
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Usually, the cheater is seen as a bad person from everyone around him/her: this person apparently ruined another person's life with this kind of behaviour but it's important to understand the deeper reasons, relationships sometimes are not made for during a long time, difficulties and obstacles may be the main enemies of a relationship. We are human, after all. You're not a bad person, you are a person.
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