I'm cheating on my husband or wife. Am I a bad person?
calmCupcake11
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Nov 18, 2015
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What we do is not who we are; it is an action that is part of our path, a decision that makes sense at the time for whatever reason. Our frame of mind influences how we act or react, so sometimes looking at the frame of mind that influenced a decision we regret for example can help in adjusting the behavior if that is what we want to do. So every experience is useful, "good" or "bad". It's what we do with what we learn from that experience that determines our future and how we choose to influence it and therefore how we feel about ourselves. I believe there is no good or bad, just useful information that gives us the power to choose differently or not next time.
Anonymous
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Nov 18, 2015
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No one can pass judgment, but marriage is based on trust. Maybe you should reevaluate your marriage.
Anonymous
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Nov 19, 2015
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The anwser to this question cant be anwserd by any one else this is on your personl belifes and if you belie it is immoral
krazeniks
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Nov 21, 2015
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Yes,literally but practically no until your husband finds out. It will also depend on the situation you are in.
Anonymous
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Nov 21, 2015
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No, its just not a good thing to do, what if your significant other was cheeting on you, how would you feel?
Anonymous
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Nov 22, 2015
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No, you are not a bad person. You just need to think about what the husband/wife is feeling. It's important to like at both sides of the issue.
geejay
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Nov 22, 2015
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Your individual actions do not define who you are. Cheating is a very serious thing that comes with severe negative consequences. Though it may not impact you, it can strong impact your husband's/wife's psychological self, giving them very bad trust issues.
Anonymous
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Nov 26, 2015
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No but if truly unhappy, it's time to think about what you want. To stay and work on things with your husband or wife? Or to leave the marriage and be single to freely be with other people
Anonymous
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Nov 27, 2015
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compassionateWhisper50
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Nov 27, 2015
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Hello; I just want to make sure I understand; you are cheating on your husband or wife and you are wondering if this makes you a bad person?
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