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I'm cheating on my husband or wife. Am I a bad person?

Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Nov 14, 2015
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Why are you cheating on your husband? It all depends on how you feel I have no right to judge so why do you do it?
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Profile: INFJGuy7
INFJGuy7 on Nov 14, 2015
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i'm not the one to judge whether you are bad person or not, but when you put yourself in his/her position, how would you feel? ;D people cheat because they are not being 100% honest with their feeling, if i can give suggestion, i think you should communicate with him/her, find the best way to solve it. if you don't like someone, don't pretend you do cause you are hurting each other... best of luck ! ^^
Profile: ShyMap840
ShyMap840 on Nov 14, 2015
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It might be best to consider how your actions will affect your spouse. It sounds like something's not right in this relationship . It might be better to have an honest frank discussion with your spouse about what is going on rather than starting a relationship with someone else. It is important to communicate about what s going on in your life with your spouse and being open with them. Starting a new relationship when you are with another person can be very damaging when you are in a committed relationship already. Try putting yourself in their shoes how would you feel if someone did that to you? Your not a bad person everyone makes mistakes. However, you must consider how this will affect your loved ones
Profile: orangesuitcase
orangesuitcase on Nov 14, 2015
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Not a bad person. But perhaps an unhappy one. Or maybe poly relationships are for you. There are many different types of relationships
Profile: goldenflower96
goldenflower96 on Nov 14, 2015
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Its wrong to be unfaithful to your spouse, think about how you would you feel if you were cheated on
Profile: amazingArrow48
amazingArrow48 on Nov 14, 2015
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You are not a bad person. You are making a wrong choice which will hurt your family eventually. Rather than cheat, try new things in bed or therapy
Profile: sunshineTouch69
sunshineTouch69 on Nov 14, 2015
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Cheating doesn't mean you are a bad person. I am not saying that it is a good thing to do though. It's fair to say that something isn't right with the current relationship so instead of cheating, openly talk to your partner and try to resolve any issues that may be present. If that cannot be done it may be best to end the relationship amicably.
Profile: SydneyLouise
SydneyLouise on Nov 14, 2015
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I don't personally believe that something that someone does defines them as a person. So, something that you do maybe bad, but it does not mean that you are a bad person.
Profile: endearingSun27
endearingSun27 on Nov 14, 2015
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In my opinion, cheating is a sign that something is missing in the relationship. It is a sign something is amiss. It could also signify something is missing that has nothing to do with a spouse. It is a solution that usually does not solve the whatever is missing and oftentimes results in unwanted consequences. It is not a definition of a bad person, although it is a signal of being confused about what's needed to bring contentment or maintaing the health of the marriage.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Nov 15, 2015
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Cheating on your spouse does not automatically bad you a bad person, but there is a lot to consider and you should take the responsibility if you're hurting other people (spourse, children, family, friends, etc.)
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