I'm cheating on my boyfriend or girlfriend. Am I a bad person?
jo651
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Nov 11, 2015
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As a person on the receiving end of a cheating person I would say yes, honesty is the best policy in regards to cheating, there is nothing more soul destroying than finding out that the person you love has been lieing, cheating and betraying. I would strongly urge you to sit your partner down and tell them the truth, or if you get caught out cheating then be 100% honest with your partner, it will soften the blow rather than more lies.
caringMirage66
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Nov 12, 2015
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There are not good and bad people. There are just people trying to be happy. You must be chasing some happiness when you are cheating and that doesn't make you a bad person. But, you might consider the happiness of your SO and maybe you can seek happiness in a way that doesn't hurt them. IME, breaking up is not as difficult as keeping secrets. and less hurtful for everyone.
JanaeW
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Nov 12, 2015
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This does not make you a bad person, but you should tell your significant other. Nothing but the truth can help you feel even a little better.
sweetRainfall12
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Nov 12, 2015
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no its just circumstances are bad. you rethink about the relation you are in. think what made you to do it and try to get over those things. if you are not happy in a relation then let that relation go free him/her and yourself from a binding string which is making you worst and making you feel bad.
Anonymous
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Nov 12, 2015
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looks like you may not be feeling good about cheating on your girlfriend. would like talk about how you are feeling ?
awesomebuddafly
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Nov 12, 2015
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No it doesn't. First you need to define cheating. Then get to the bottom of why you did it. At that point you can reach out to the other party and discuss if you should stay together or go your separate ways.
Manifestation
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Nov 12, 2015
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Have you ever been cheated on or felt cheated in life? These are the feelings and the situation that is being created. Should you feel bad? If so, what are you going to do with that feeling?
Anonymous
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Nov 13, 2015
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No your not a bad person but what you are doing is bad and can really hurt someone and thats so not okay. Imagine how you would feel if you were the person getting cheated on.
Anonymous
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Nov 13, 2015
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If you need to ask if you're a bad person, I think you just answered the question. Clearly if you are cheating you have some internal relationship struggles going on, and cheating was your way of coping. I hope you can work it out in the end if you still love them. Goodluck
itsgoingtobeokay96
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Nov 13, 2015
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Cheating doesn't make you a bad person, just a person with poor decisions
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