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I'm cheating on my boyfriend or girlfriend. Am I a bad person?

Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Nov 8, 2015
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You are not a bad person, you are probably just confused about what you want in terms of a relationship.
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Profile: sharxsupport
sharxsupport on Nov 8, 2015
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No. Lots of people have cheated. MLK Jr cheated on his wife. One bad thing you do does not make all of you bad. However, if you feel guilty, it's probably best to do something to resolve those feelings--breaking up with your SO, coming clean and apologizing, stopping your affair and never telling your SO--whatever is necessary for you to resolve the guilt.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Nov 9, 2015
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It is absolutely wrong what you are doing. It could severely hurt your partner's feelings. I bet he/she loves you very much and thinks you truly love them too.
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Anonymous on Nov 10, 2015
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People do make mistakes, those mistakes don't necessarily define them - however what you are doing is very wrong. You're being unfair to both parties. Your partner deserves loyalty, if you cannot be faithful then you need to either stop cheating or end the relationship - acknowledge your mistake and try to find a solution so your partner and you can have peace.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Nov 11, 2015
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When you cheat on someone, it is the betrayal, the lie that is hidden that causes the most pain. It does not mean you are a bad person, but you are making a bad decision.
Profile: AlexTheCat
AlexTheCat on Nov 11, 2015
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Just because you have done bad things, DOES NOT make you a bad person. But, in all seriousness, you need to tell your girlfriend/boyfriend what happened. Keeping secrets from them is not beneficial to you or the other person.
Profile: DancingCat47
DancingCat47 on Nov 11, 2015
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You're not a bad person. Perhaps, you feel confused about what you're looking for in a relationship?
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Anonymous on Nov 11, 2015
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No you are not a bad person but there are healthier ways to express discontent with your boyfriend or girlfriend.
Profile: kacieelyynnnn
kacieelyynnnn on Nov 11, 2015
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Making a bad decision doesn't make you a bad person-------------------------------------------------
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Anonymous on Nov 11, 2015
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You are not necessarily a bad person and the fact that you ask this question says a lot as it is, everybody makes mistakes and hopefully your bf/gf can forgive you.
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