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I'm cheating on my boyfriend or girlfriend. Am I a bad person?

Profile: Glareofyesterday
Glareofyesterday on Apr 25, 2016
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Obviously its not a good thing to have in ones bag of tricks but in the end its on you not necessarily a bad person for it but carma is
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Profile: Candid0211
Candid0211 on Jul 25, 2016
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In every likelihood if you are asking this question then you are not ok with the fact that you are cheating on them. You have to be free of feeling of guilt and for that take actions in that direction.
Profile: creativePalm12
creativePalm12 on Nov 20, 2017
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I don't think cheating necessarily indicates you're a bad person - it might be more a reflection of how you feel about the relationship you're in. However - that doesn't mean that what you're doing isn't a "bad thing". You're still cheating, regardless of the reason, regardless of whether you're a "good" or "bad" person. The fact is, good people do bad things all the time, and other people still get hurt by those actions.
Profile: Kaylaxxx
Kaylaxxx on Nov 7, 2015
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I wouldn't say you're a bad a person. You proberly need to sit them down and have a talk, we all make mistakes, Good luck
Profile: taaytaay363
taaytaay363 on Nov 7, 2015
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No. You are not a bad person. Although in my opinion cheating is wrong, and it shouldn't be something that people should do. I think you should sit down with your boy/girlfriend and have a chat. Best luck to you!
Profile: peachicus
peachicus on Nov 7, 2015
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You're not a bad person but the longer you keep this a secret from your partner you need to be aware it will only hurt them more when they find out. If you really care for them its only fair you tell them the truth.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Nov 7, 2015
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Not necessarily a bad person, but it is wrong to cheat on you other half if you are in a relationship.
Profile: blazingwolf
blazingwolf on Nov 8, 2015
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Your action is clearly wrong. You still have life to redeem yourself and do good deeds
Profile: blackZebra81
blackZebra81 on Nov 8, 2015
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I would not say you are a bad person however it would help for you to talk to your partner about why you are cheating and to evaluate how seriously you are about being in a committed relationship. The act of cheating is bad but not you as a person. We are all imperfect and make wrong choices. Take responsibility for your actions and do what you can to improve things if you care about the person you are with. If you do not care about them than it is best to leave in a respectful manner.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Nov 8, 2015
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You're not a bad person, maybe you're not happy with the relationship you have currently have but if that's the case you need to end the relationship instead of getting revenge or whatever you are trying to accomplish by cheating.
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