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I'm cheating on my boyfriend or girlfriend. Am I a bad person?

Profile: Vivii
Vivii on Jan 10, 2016
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Cheating doesn't make you a bad person.You probably weren't happy about your partner or you felt bored for your relationship and that's why you lead yourself into this situation.
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Profile: FractalBunny
FractalBunny on Nov 7, 2015
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Cheating is never a good idea. If you are cheating, the best option is to end it with one of them. It never works out.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Nov 7, 2015
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cheating on boyfriend or girlfriend is not being bad or good.you are cheating yourself. you are breaking someone's heart who truly trusted you, truly loved you. you don't deserve their true love. if you don't like them, better reject them. a true rejection is better than fake relationship.
Profile: VikasMan
VikasMan on Nov 21, 2015
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It depends on the situation on basis on which you are doing it. Let's day you are happy right now in whatever life you are leading but you just do it because of some greed of your or a particular need that you need to fulfill, damm sure it makes you a bad person. Let's consider the case when you are unhappy with the person and you are in it because you don't want to break the hearts of other. At the same time you happen to meat someone you are most comfortable with. You like the way person makes you feel about your day, about your life. Then you are not a bad person. You are just wishing for happiness for real and not by hoping that the other one you are with will change sometime or will make you feel the same as that other, you are cheating with is doing. But important thing is keeping it hidden will definitely make you feel bad or make you feel that you are a bad person. So you should consider telling the truth as soon as possible,
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Dec 20, 2015
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You are not a bad person but, you will hurt your boyfriend/girlfriend by cheating instead of breaking up with them, it will make them sad and make yourself sad. Breaking up would be the best possible answer in this case.
Profile: AJcalypso
AJcalypso on Sep 30, 2019
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No, you are not a bad person. The key is to find the route to why you are doing this. But you are never a bad person, you are harming your significant other but you can always forgive yourself. It’s alright to be ashamed and confused, people cheat because something isn’t being fulfilled in their life, so find what you’re missing and move on to be a happier better person. Forgive yourself, and move on to what makes you happier, clearly it isn’t your partner. And I know it’s scary to be alone but that’s when you self reflect and learn to love yourself despite your wrong doings. I’m here for you, I understand you. xoxo Audri
Profile: PeladaEverett
PeladaEverett on Nov 7, 2015
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Your morals are for you to differentiate between good and bad, if your subconsciously believe your decision is wrong; then it is wrong to cheat. However, if you subconsciously believe it is right; then it is right to cheat. The question is "Would you follow societies conventions?"
Profile: Michalla
Michalla on Nov 7, 2015
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Depends on whether you like it or not. Everybody can make a mistake but cheating on your partner intentially and without qualms is bad.
Profile: CourageousCupcake07
CourageousCupcake07 on Nov 7, 2015
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Try asking yourself why you are cheating in this relationship, what are you lacking or gaining that you cant in your committed relationship? Are you keeping yourself and your partner from finding happiness?
Profile: laviouderis
laviouderis on Nov 14, 2015
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Cheating is a bad thing but it doesn't mean you are a bad person. People make mistakes. You are probably just confused about what you want in a relationship.
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