I'm cheating on my boyfriend or girlfriend. Am I a bad person?

You're not exactly a bad person. You fell for someone else and that is usually uncontrolable. What you need to do is to tell the truth to your current partner though I do not guarantee she will give you a second chance.

There's no real answer to this. If you love your boy/girlfriend then honesty is a good way to resolve these issues. If you don't, honesty would still be a good option since it may benefit you more than hiding it. There's no saying if you are a bad person or a good person. Everyone will hurt someone's feelings. The most important things (in my opinion) are how you move on and what you do next. A past action could be referred to as 'spilled milk'. I hope this was helpful.

Cheating isnt a good thing anyway you look at it. But it doesnt always make you a bad person just because you do something wrong or bad.

Morally, yes. Psychologically, perhaps. Some people cheat because they're in a bad relationship that is toxic and they're too scared to get out of it or they don't want to hurt the person's feelings. Sometimes, the person just wants to hurt the other person. Other times, it can simply be because they're bored of the person and/or relationship. Your answer to why someone may do so determines whether or not they're a bad person. Of course, there are people who think that cheating is not acceptable, no matter the reason and consider the person to be bad. Hope this helps.

It depends in how you're feeling about it. If what you are doing makes you more happy then talk to your girlfriend first cause you don't want her to know it from other people it will look worst than it is. But generally I think no you're not. :)

i love my boyfriend of 5 years deeply. we were going through a difficult time. fought constantly. while we were apart i was comforted by another guy. we would hangout together, drink, smoke and kiss. We had sex at a later stage of our encounters. it happened more than once. Ultimately what we both did was wrong since we both had partners.

Be mindful that you may be possibly hurting someone. You're not a bad person. There are no bad people. We're all just people. And we can do bad things or good things. We make mistakes too, and that doesn't make us bad or good either. Breaking up with your boy/girlfriend will relieve your doubt and possible guilt. It might be best to take this road because if your partner finds out, there will be a lot of trouble. Another option is to stop cheating on them and keep the relationship going.

yes, it is very wrong. The fact that you go behind your significant other's back and cheat means that you shouldn't be in a relationship. Cheating hurts both parties, I have been cheated on before and it makes me feel like i'm pathetic

what you don't like to be done to you , do not do it to others .Period!

You're not a bad person but the choice that you're taking is pretty awful . Makeup your mind to who you want to be with.