If your are being treated unfairly by your bother, what should you do?

You should speak to him about his unfair treatment towards you and express how it makes you feel and how it is affecting your life. If he wants to talk about it, great. If he doesn't want to talk about it, you can simply disengage and maintain your distance to protect your peace of mind. If nothing works out, remember, he can only treat you unfairly if you let him. If you stay in a victim mindset, he will keep treating you the same. Taking your power back by not allowing him to treat you unfairly, and building stronger boundaries, is your responsibility and the best thing you can do for yourself.

When I was growing up, my sister and I did not have the best relationship. She used to scream at me, hit me, and call me names. She never listened to me and gave me unwanted advice. What did I do? I held it in. I never told her. Until last year it came to a breaking point and I screamed at her. The point of this story don't wait until you're at your breaking point. Tell your brother right away when they treat you unfairly. My parents used to try to intervene but it never did any good. Don't rely on anyone else to advocate on your behalf. You have the courage and strength to advocate for yourself.