I hate my husband or wife. Why?

because they may have some qualities that may be reminding you about someone in your past that may have hurt you or done something to you that may have hurt you

The feeling of hating your husband/wife must have started with the small things. Un-confronted one small thing over another small thing that resulted to one mountain pile of reasons to hate your partner. Or it might also be lack of effort and time to really fall in love with your partner. Staying in love and sustaining that passion requires a lot of hard work and devotion. =)

Why would I hate my wife? Well, she lied to me about a relationship she had with a "friend" and has now lost my trust and some respect. Now I don't enjoy being around her like I once did. I have felt guilty about being around her when she was naked but that is changing slowly. I really want the passion and connection to return but I understand that this takes time

We don't start out hating each other, but behavioral patterns tend to gain momentum, when an individual's needs go unmet. Even with skill in reflection present in both partners, triggering can cause aggression. Partners should work through a third party to vent frustration, and insulate hostile communications temporarily, until things cool off!

Sometimes in life we find that we have lost a passion that we once had. In this case, it's the love for a spouse. Life can be strenuous on a marriage. The routine and the repetition takes away the spontaneity. Bills and money can make like seem less grand, and you experience all of this with your spouse. You see their good, their bad, and their ugly, and they see yours. Life isn't as good as the movies, sadly. In this case, try to remember what you fell in love with in the first place. Remember that we are all less glamorous that we would like to be, and try to find that intimacy again. Make time for sex, romance, and conversation in every week. You will find that love comes more easy when you become friends again.

Do you hate them, or are you projecting hate from an unfulfilled expectation? Take a look at what it is you say you hate about them and work backwards to the reasoning. Is it because you expected them to be a certain way and they're not?

Well, this can be a very general question. Do you specifically hate something about them or that they do? If so, communication is key! Have a conversation gently with them about whats going on! If you are feeling resentment or anger, you could consider therapy or counseling, to get to the root of the issue :)

there can be many reasons for this. have they hurt you emotionally or physically? or have you just fallen out if love? hate is a very strong word (omg I hate that phrase) so you might not hate them but just hate something they have done. talk to them about it

Sometimes it is just a feeling of how you don't measure up and no one understands and gets you. It can be difficult sometimes as though you're not good enough. Can be hard sometimes.

Hate is heavy. It is easy to hate your spouse especially when you feel that you are not happy in that relationship that you thought you would be, but all the hate and Love comes from within you and you have to search yourself and let go the resentment. Purpose to see the good in your partner.