I hate my husband or wife. Why?

It really depends on the situation but it's entirely possible to just grow apart from someone you were once close to or simply learn to resent them. Most people keep certain pains affecting them from their spouse, and sometimes they build up till you can just no longer stand that person. I'd recommend considering divorce or couples therapy, but only know you can know what is best for your current situation

You may hate them because of one of their habits. Or maybe you thought you liked them until you had to commit to them for the rest if your life.

Try to find out what makes you hate them, whether its attitude, somethings they say or what they do. Then try to talk it out with them. They are there to help you.

Only you will be able to determine why this is but perhaps consider writing down the things that you think they have done to make you feel this way. Does anything come to mind after some thought? It might be worth waiting until you can calmly communicate your feelings to them focusing on how situations have made you feel. Also thinking of a compromise to resolve the issues might help to diffuse any situations of high emotions should they arise. What you do after that is entirely up to you.

Maybe your feeling for them have just fizzled over time. It's perfectly okay and not your fault. Consider couples counselling or just talking to your partner to work out your issues and and maybe come up with a solution

Well, hate's is a pretty strong work. Odds are, you changed as people and you highly dislike the person they've become or the person that they were while they pretended to be someone different. It's nearly impossible to "Hate" someone, but you can really "dislike" the way what they do, say, or have done and said makes you feel. Odds are, if you think that you "Hate" Your spouse, it may be time to start communicating or walk away. When a word like "Hate" comes along, the situation has already started/is toxic.

Because you want your partner to give you something that he/she is not able to give you. It's also possible that you are expecting too much from you partner. Are you giving you as much love as you can for your partner?

Hate is a strong word. Maybe you are uncomfortable with their habits or yours and theirs choice of interests might not have matched. I think you should try talking to them why you feel like that towards them. Hope you get your problems resolved.

Falling in love and falling out of love are very natural. When we fall in love with someone there is always a chance that we might fall out for love too. After marriage life takes a drastic change, there are major changes in your everyday life and if you do not like that changes you tend to associate them with your spouse. You feel that the change happened because of them and you start to hate them as well. You need to understand that your spouse is going through the same changes and needs your understanding not hatered.

In my experience marriage has its ups and downs. I think life is so busy, sometimes we forgot to make time for the people we care about. It's all too easy to stop communicating our wants and needs to our spouses and this can result in resentment. Opening up the channels of communication, really talking about how you feel, is key to a healthy relationship. Marriage takes work and sometimes we have to put other things aside to give it the attention it needs.