I hate my husband or wife. Why?

There is a fine line between love and hate. What does hate mean to you? It may be helpful for you to analyze what you mean by the word "hate." Perhaps making a pros and cons list may help you figure out what is bothering you about your husband or wife. Marriage is not always smooth sailing and you cannot be head over heels for that person all of the time. It is normal to be annoyed, frustrated, sad, or even happy with that person. All of your feelings are valid and normal. It is very normal to hate your husband or wifes guts but remember why you decided to marry them in the first place.

It probably because he/her had hurt you in some ways? It doesn't have to be done consciously or purposely. Well, probably we didn't really realize that we are/were hurt at the moment. That happened to me. I didn't realize when my husband said some things (or the way he talked) to me, but after a few moments later, I just realized that what he said/did hurt my feelings. Talking about how I feel about his actions/behaviors often help me to understand how I really feel about certain things. It doesn't have to be talking to him/her (if you aren't ready), talking to anyone I can trust does help. Hope this helps. Stay safe and healthy.

You might not like them because you've spend so much time around them, it could make you anxious. So take a break and if you still don't like them divorce honey. It will not be good for anyone in the future, they might hate you too. You could do therapy, but if you really really hate them is It going to work? Do you have kids too? Don't think about the kids, kids often prefer separate parent if the parents keep on fighting. A lot of people have said that, a house where the parents keep fighting is worse that two houses.

You may be hiding some trauma to your husband/wife from the far or near future. Perhaps you do not understand your "languages of love", which makes you feel misunderstood. I think it is worthwhile to talk calmly and if this does not work, go to therapy together. This should help, but you never know. Perhaps you will find out that the problem lies with you, maybe some old scars from the future. Perhaps you will find out that the problem lies with you, maybe some old scars from the future. Conversation and closeness will certainly help in this case.

Often times when there’s tension in the relationship, it mostly has to do with change in the relationship. Have you guys been arguing a lot recently? Is there tension constantly? Are you getting annoyed with them frequently over small things? This usually means you guys spend a lot of time together. You don’t get many breaks from one another and you begin to pin point the things you hate the most about them. Hate and annoyance are two completely different things though. Maybe you’re just annoyed by the tactics you see every day. Talk to them about it, and try to build from that situation.

Sometime we hit a rough patch in our marriages or relationships. I have found that in the past when I have animosity towards someone I care about it is because I dislike the situation we are in, not necessary the person. When I clarify what it is that I am really struggling with, I am also able to find possible solutions. If I do find that I am in a relationship that isn't working for me after examining my feelings, then I have to make some difficult choices. Sometimes a relationship has run its course. Other times, a relationship is worth doing the work to get it back to a good place. These are all important questions you need to ask yourself.

It isn't often really easy. When you hate someone, you have got really strong feelings. There had happened a lot.... ask not why you hate him, ask what you can to that things become better. Remember how you met him first time, your first hug with him, your first kiss, do you remember? He is someone very special in your life. Things are often not easy, sometimes it needs more space, it is better to stop thinkings who goes around and goes around and sometimes it helps to look at things from a completly different perspective or to telling the situation friends, who understanding you.

Everything can be broken down into two emotions - fear and love. Ask yourself - why did I close my heart and build a wall around it so I can´t even feel love for my spouse anymore? What is my fear when I show love and appreciation to my spouse? And if I really don´t have deep feelings for my partner anymore - why don´t I appreciate and love myself enough to walk out of this situation? Love is what we truly are - don´t let fear keep you away from experiencing the most amazing thing in the world. Trust.

Sorry to hear that. Can you give me more information as to why it is that you might feel hatred towards your husband or wife? What exactly is it that makes you hate your husband or wife? Do you often feel like this, if so, is it on a daily basis? Do you feel as though your life is in danger or are you being physically or emotionally abused? Would you like to set up a weekly meeting to talk about your feelings towards your husband or wife? Is there anything else that comes to mind that has an affect on your feelings towards your husband or wife?

Unfortunately, it is pretty much guaranteed that we will feel like we hate our husbands at some points in our marriage. It’s only natural because you are spending so much time with someone. Living with someone can be really tough anyway, then if you add on the pressure of being married to them, you can feel restricted and annoyed. This is understandably so. However, a lot of the time, the hate that you think you are experiencing is actually another emotion masking itself. If you really hated your husband, you wouldn’t be here reading this, you would have left him behind already and moved on. I am not trying to belittle the way you feel, but it can be something else other than hate, even if you might think it feels the same. Many emotions make us feel similar to hate, but they are not hate.