I hate my family and want to move out right when I turn 18... is that okay?
RinRin
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Oct 23, 2014
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I used to be like that too. My family and I don't get along as much. I told myself that I would move out when I turn 18. But before I turned 18, I learned that my family will be here for me no matter what, and that we can't survive without them, especially if we're still young.
Harri
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Oct 27, 2014
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As long as you feel comfortable moving out when you're 18 and you're sure it's whats best, there is nothing wrong with that. But moving out can be a massive step even when you don't get on with your family, so you shouldn't be afraid to really explore the details of it
Sadiewillow1
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Oct 12, 2014
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I think it's okay to want to move out when you turn 18, but I also think it's important to try to find a way to be happy with your situation and to not just be waiting until the moment you turn 18.
Anonymous
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Oct 30, 2014
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Is it absolutely fine to want your own space and to be away, and at 18 you have every right to do so. But keeping in contact with your family at least partially is also important, unless they cause you too much pain.
Anonymous
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Dec 13, 2015
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I think that's okay. Your emotional, physical, and spiritual health is the most important and if you feel your family isn't contributing to that then get away. Just make sure that wherever you end up won't be just as detrimental to your health! A lot of time people believe that just because you're family you should automatically feel a certain way towards them and feel some sort of loyalty but that's not necessary. It's okay to feel the way you feel because your feelings are valid. I do believe that when you're ready you should have a conversation with them about it!
Anonymous
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Nov 10, 2014
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It is fine to move out when you turn 18. But in the long run your future emotional well being will greatly benefit greatly if you can part ways with your family under amicable circumstances.
lightPetrichor34
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Nov 11, 2014
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You're the only one who can know that for sure, but if you do think it's the best thing for you to do, there are plenty of resources to help young people who are on their own. I have a few friends who did, but they were all very extreme situations. If you're unsure, it is ok to seek help, and any professional will keep your interactions private. If you're in school and trust your counselor, you could talk to them, or any third-party adult who might know the situation better or help you find more professional help if you feel it would help.
xXNNYXx
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Oct 30, 2014
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That is perfectly acceptable if you feel its what you must do, I left when I turned 18 traveled the united states and was made better for it, but if you do leave just make sure you have a safe place for you to stay and have a plan A, B , and C.
Anonymous
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Nov 20, 2014
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As long as you are earning your own income and are able to look after yourself it should be fine, afterall you are technically an adult now.
amazingRainfall28
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Dec 23, 2015
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Yeah I think that is okay, only you truly know what living with your family is like. It's important not to make any hasty decisions though, plan with your best interests in mind. You never know, you might get on better with them when there is more distance between you, depending on the circumstances.
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