I hate my family and want to move out right when I turn 18... is that okay?
angeldez94
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Jan 21, 2016
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No. It's never ok. Family is the most important thing in the world. There may be ups & downs with family members but know they always love & care for you even if they don't show it.
majesticMoment21
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Jan 21, 2016
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Your family has raised you up till now for 18 long years; with so much of care and love. If something is not working out talk about it to them :)
But moving out is not a solution :)
ughhitshaley
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Jan 21, 2016
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You shouldnt hate them because they are their to help you through situations but wanting to move out when you are 18 is okay
Anonymous
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Jan 22, 2016
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As a growing child, you will need and demand more space. As a family, they should have granted you that space, if they don't then it's perfectly normal that you'd want to leave for that much longing time of freedom.
expressive2262
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Jan 23, 2016
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You should try talking to them to see if you can resolve any large issues, but you have to have a comfterble living situation.
briaannasaurus
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Jan 24, 2016
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Before attempting to move out, try to have a heart to heart with your family or try to seek professional help. But if you do move out try to come up with a plan first.
owenlang
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Jan 28, 2016
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Moving out when you're 18 is perfectly fine. There's nothing wrong about that. If you think you'll struggle moving out then you can maybe seek support from friends or others that would love to help.
Anonymous
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Jan 28, 2016
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Yes, it is okay if you want to since you'll be an adult, however it brings big responsibility like you now need to fund yourself, get a place to say, make income for food, etc. which for most fresh 18 year olds is very difficult to do.
Dana13
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Jan 29, 2016
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You don't actually hate your family, hate is a strong word that should not be easily used all the time. Take some time to gather your thoughts and think it through, speak to them and tell them how some things they do or say hurt your feelings or upset you. Do not always assume that your family are mind readers. I used to feel this way when I was your age about moving out, but it was more that I thought they didn't care about me, growing up really showed me how wrong I were. Don't always rely on your temporary emotions :)
Anonymous
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Jan 29, 2016
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its okay that you are seeking independence :)
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