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I hate my family and want to move out right when I turn 18... is that okay?

Profile: gentleDreamer72
gentleDreamer72 on Dec 31, 2015
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Yes, that is okay. It is perfectly normal and natural to feel some anger and resentment toward your family, especially if you have been living with them for your whole life. Right now, you are at a stage in which you are becoming more independent and separate from your family. It is very natural to experience tension surrounding this conflict.
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Profile: tingleyspice
tingleyspice on Dec 31, 2015
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Absolutely! When you are 18 you can be responsible for your own well being and no one deserves to be unhappy :)
Profile: Sniffles0188
Sniffles0188 on Jan 1, 2016
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Depending on how your family have treated you throughout the years - it is important to learn to love those who have raised you and forgiveness is key. However, ultimately the most important thing is to do what ever makes you happy as it is your life, therefore you can do whatever you want with it. On the other hand, running away from your issues will not get you anywhere so considering a discussion or heart-to-heart with family members before moving out would be a good idea to consider as they could even help support your new home :)
Profile: Millie1912
Millie1912 on Jan 1, 2016
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You can move out of the family home when you are 18, but surely you would want to be financially stable so that you can get a mortgage or rent somewhere to live.
Profile: angelfawn
angelfawn on Jan 2, 2016
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i think it depends on the situation. family are, at most, inseparable. they'll always be there. if they are abusive in any way, it's in your best interest to move out away from the negativity. some families don't listen, so finding your own life and independence is the only way forward. try speaking to them about your feelings before leaving. some families do not have an awareness of the impact of their actions.
Profile: Kryssy88
Kryssy88 on Jan 2, 2016
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Personally, I would try talking to your parents about what makes you want to move out. How you are feeling, and what you would like to change in your relationship to make it a more positive one.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jan 2, 2016
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Of course it is okay to move out right when you turn 18. Most people do. Maybe talk to your family about some of the issues you have or write them a note to clear the air.
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Anonymous on Jan 2, 2016
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As soon as you turn 18, the choice is your's. So if you feel that it's best for you then it's your choice.
Profile: arthurka
arthurka on Jan 2, 2016
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That's fine. If you need to get away from your family you should not feel pressured to stay with them at all.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jan 3, 2016
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Wanting distance from your family is completely understandable and normal. Talking with your family about how you feel might help with some of these feelings.
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