how to stop hating your older sister?

An elder sibling, especially a sister is a mom in disguise. It's hard for us to notice and we aren't wrong but their constant criticism is mostly because they love you and really care about you. We should look at them that way

Hmm... Sibling rivalry perhaps, or just out of sheer annoyance of her? Either way, the best thing to do is confront her about what she does that makes you hate her. I found that playing video games and having my sister play with me or watch has made our bond stronger, and we can openly talk. I suggest trying something similar in which you find something you both love to do, and then try to talk to her while you two are hanging out together.