How to stop hating your mother in law?

Is a hard question because, you have to remember every head is a word, and probably she is seeing things in a different way than you, and probably she do actions that hurt you, but you have to remember the only person you can control is your self.

Get to know her better , maybe you just don't know her well enough , but you're just judging her . Get close to her , have time with her and you might change your thoughts

Find out why are you hating on your mother in law, then try to understand how she feel about you. Put yourself in her shoes, how'd you feel if your mother in law hates you?. If she does something you hate, try to tolerate it. Think of her as your own mother or aunt.

Get to know her , talk to her , cook her food lmao , but yeah talk to her and you will create a bond . Good luck love !

Generally, you dislike/hate a person because the things they do tend to upset you deeply. One thing you can do to stop hating someone is to talk to this person and try to understand what motivates them to perform the certain actions that you don't like. In my personal experience, once you know the intentions behind an action, you it understand better and then the hate just goes away. That is, of course, if the actions come from a good place. If the person has malicious intentions then your best bet to avoid feeling hatred is to avoid that person as much as you can. Hope this helps, good luck :)

When youre father love her, you can try be good with her for your father. You can be good friends with her, let's try!

just stop, you dont go anywhere with hating. start to actually get to know her, maybe she is a great person in the end!

Sometimes we hate her because we believe that she is the person who broke our family. But its not her fault! We have to think she is also a person wirh feelings and that her purpose is not to make us feel bad, but stay with our father.

Hating an in law can be a very challenging thing. Figuring out the things that you hate so much might help you to get past all of them and move forward with your relationship with her

Communicate with your mother in law more,have 1-on-1 sessions with her to understand her better and for her to understand you more so both of you will be able to know both of you do certain things and the reason behind the parenting styles each of you use/used.That way,you won't feel like your mother in law is such a bad person so you will be able to stop hating her