How to stop hating your mother in law?

I might give you a controversial answer here. So there is two ways. One, try to see the situation as if you were in her shoes, try to relate to what she is feeling. Her needs, her thoughts, feelings and so fourth. Just imagine yourself being in her place with none of your own baggage. The second one is the controversial one and should according to me only be practiced in special occations. That is simply. You are allowed to feel whatever it is you are feeling. You have your reasons, you have your feelings and they are okay to feel. Just know that hating someone does not have to last forever, and most of the time forgiveness is usually something very relieving and makes you feel better most of the time so try number one both before and after number two. Always remember us here on 7 cups are here to help and support you. Never be afraid to reach out.

First try to list of the things what and why you hate about her and maybe tell her how you feel about her.

How to stop hating your mother in law is to try to do family stuff together or you can try to find stuff that both interest you

Try and some things in common, like loving the same person, which is your parent and their spouse...

well. I don't really have one rn but I think when I love her son I'll love her as appreciation and consider her as a mother for me as well

Start spending more time with her and understand life from her point of view. Be more positive too!

Get to know her, at least give yourself the chance to know her, how she really is, sometimes people act some ways but thats not who they really are, who knows? maybe you'll like her

I don't think this is something which can be simply solved buy try talking to your dad about it, explain how you feel.

Try to find ways to connect with the mother-in-law. Find a common interest and go from there. It really helps if you can find a common ground and use that to help strengthen the relationship.

Be nice to her became he friend try to understand her and always be kind to her.try to treat her as you treat your own mom and tell yourself that you love her son then you should love her