How to stop hating your mother?

Okay. First things first. You wouldn't be here if it weren't for her. She took care of you ever since you we're less than an inch big. She may not be all that you expect her to be. But we're humans. And we make mistakes.

Accept that some people just won't change. Your mother has had a probably hard life just like you have, but back then people were much more unforgiving. You think how she treats you is bad? Can you imagine the household she came from to produce a person who may have done/said the things she may have done/said? Stop hating your mother by understanding your mother. The very same thing we all want from everyone. Less hate, more understanding.

I wish I knew the answer to this... Firstly it's not your fault your feeling this way! Clearly something has happened or is still happening! But as they say time heals all sounds. As for the hatred it consumes too much time and energy and only makes you feel worse! Letting go a bit and trying to move on are the first steps...

If you don't know the reason for hating her, then you need to find the root of your hatred. After that, you have to acknowledge the why and think about whether or not you can bring yourself to no longer hate her. Every situation is different, and you don't always have to stop hating someone-it's based on what caused the hatred and the relationship between you. If you think you can and should, you should talk with your mother about what's going on and begin the healing process.

Not hate her in the first place and love her and show her you love her she won't be around forever so love her as long as she is around

It depends on what she has done but think of it this way she gave you life on the earth and that should be one thing to appreciate.

Think of her as the one who gave you life. you may not always have something to agree on, but remember that she was the first one to love you in this world.

You may feel great appreciation for your mother, yet also feel like she gets on your last nerves sometimes, too. There are many types of relationships you can have with your mother, from enjoying a happy and fulfilling relationship to feeling abused or put down by your mother. If you struggle to get along with your mother, realize that while you cannot change her, you can make changes to how you interact.

Relationships can take a long time to mend, especially with our own families. Open and honest conversations with the person in question are a great way to start, but these aren't always easy. If the person is unwilling to speak with you or is speaking to you disrespectfully, this isn't your fault. The saying, "it takes two to tango" is very legitimate. If you can't communicate with the other person as a way to heal, try working on yourself. Sometimes all we need is space. Other times, we need to work really hard to control our feelings and dig deeper in order to foster resiliency. Try to practice mindfulness exercises and build you support network. Finally, 'hate' is a very strong word. What you may be feeling is anger or resentment. Try to identify and label other feelings besides 'hate'.

It's hard, but remeber to forgive but not forget. Think of the positives with her. Also you can look up more ideas online and get help specific to your situation.