How to stop hating your mother?

You can do activities/day outs with your mother to help build a better bond/stronger relationship with her.

To be completely honest, you must first forgive her. After you do this, the hate will slowly pass. True, it requires courage but hey, you CAN do it.

realize that she is a person too, with real feelings and emotions. it's hard to picture our mothers as people who feel things and have emotions, they have to disguise a lot of their feelings for the sake of their children.

Try to see things from her point of view. Then talk to her and try to get her to see yours. Even if you can agree to disagree on some things, that is progress. Remember that, even though she is your mother, she is still only human and makes mistakes. Talking to her about how you feel is the best way of resolving issues.

Forgive her because she did not (and even still now does not) know better, and in many situations just doing as she herself was raised.

I have experienced this and let me tell you it is not easy! However, no matter why you hate her or what she has done, it is not good to go through life with hate in your heart! Forgive but never forget and move on!

whoa! this question hit me hard.... well if you hate your mom then i am so sorry... but if you wanna stop hating her then you could umm write letters about how you love her and hoe you wanna stop hating her... go and talk to her... hug her and kiss her

Let me know when you find an answer.

I learnt that after a bad experience with my mum, I slowly became more uptight just like her, but I realised overtime, that slow and truthful communication helps to ease the tension.

What is the problem? Are you under a lot of stress? Did she not buy you that one of a kind necklace? or is it a more serious issue such as hurling hurtful comments at you or focusing her stress and anger on you? You should always sit down and have a conversation with your mother. Tell her how you feel about your relationship and try to encourage her to speak about it too. Try to spend more time with her, maybe cooking or going to see a movie together.