How to stop hating your mother?

First, you have to understand your own thinking. Are you angry at your mom for over protecting you? She may be acting this way to keep you safe. Mothers know that the world is a dangerous place, and all they want is to keep you safe. You need to understand your side and her side in order to develop a strong relationship with your mother.

Think about she loves you but she is expressing her love in a different way that you cannot understand now ,you may figure it out when you become a dad/mom and appreciate her the most!

The thing is that when you hate somebody, there is always a reason. This may apply to anyone, so if it is your mother things should be no different. The feeling is implanted due to how you feel and possibly how you have been treated. To "get over" this, you would have to talk about it with her - make sure there's a mutual understanding on both parts. When I spoke about how I felt, she did try to change how she did certain things with or for me. Perhaps talking would help?

Mother- is a person who does everything for you. Even if you’re having a difficult times now, never hate her. She is the one who loves you by your soul and heart, not by the things you do, say, etc.

try to underdtand her and always try to help her whatever she is saying or warning you for the sake of your goodness

Thinking as she is my mom who keep in womb me for 9 months with pain and struggles and who care me lot in world

This one hits home for me. Just give it time, and try to have fun with her. Be nice and ask her some questions to start talking.

This is hard to answer without any background on the situation, but what I will say is, your mother is a human being. We sometimes forget our parents are human as well, and they do make mistakes just like everyone else. No one is perfect, not even our parents. Maybe realising this will help you relate with your mother as a person who makes mistakes rather than an idol that should be perfect all the time.

I want to start off by saying hate is a profound word in my vocabulary however I could understand how individudusks could harvest this negative emotion towards a mother. In my experience my relationship with mother has been Toxic since I can remember. Her Narsissictic traits do not help the situation. Throughout the years I have tried to accept her and her ways but I guess my own way of thinking hoping she would change for the better gets in the way. In the end all I could do for her is wish her well.

Try to understand her point of view. What is causing her to act in a way you dislike? What is something you both like and can connect on?