How to stop hating your mother?

Most of the time,your mother loves you and cares about you,and you would have no reson to hate her at all.If your mother isnt providing support,is ego centric,and doasent care for your well being and is abusive,you have the right to hate her,but she did give you life,so consider the hate.

There is really only one solution for hate and that is love. Start loving and accepting your mom totally for who and what she is without any conditions or expectations.

Realize she is who brought you into this earth, she is trying her hardest to keep you happy, you are her child which she will always love

Spend more time with your mother. Know the little things she had been doing for u. Notice that she may be rude but everything leads to only one conclusion that she actually cares for u

Although frowned upon, hating your mother is a feeling many kids, teenagers and even adults come to face. Firstly, you should try and realize that, just like all people, your mother has flaws and imperfections. No one is perfect! Then, a good idea would be to write down the things you love about your mother, and anything positive related to her. That will help you feel gratitude towards having your mother in your life. Finally, if the above don't seem to work for you, you can adress to an expert, such as a counselor, who will definitely be able to help you in the best way.

Understand what she is doing. Is she worried about you? Or she doesn't want you to get hurt. Maybe she doesn't want you to grow anymore. Understand how she is feeling

It's a woman who give You life, if you appreciate your life you have for what love mother. Mother never want bad

I think it´s not a thing you can really control . I`m aware that this is a bit of a taboo in society, we shouldn´t hate our mothers, only love them. But ambivalence is part of every relationship. Maybe ask yourself why you hate her and if you have valid reasons for it and if so, what you can do about it.

By trying to find what is the source of the problem to why you hate her and trying to fix that......

Now that I am in my 40s I realize that my mother did the best she could with the tools she had. I understand her own childhood more and I realize how terrible it was. She did better than her parents, and even though it was still harmful, I know now with the benefit of years and wisdom that she really did the best she could. It is still sad sometimes, but there's no anger left in me for her.