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How to stop hating your little sister?

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Anonymous on Jun 25, 2020
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Sometimes its hard to get along with siblings especially since they are around us constantly. Your feelings are normal and completely valid when it comes to your sister. I understand how you feel and how you may want to make a difference. Communication with your little sister is important and also talking about why you may feel that way. Hopefully with time you and your sister can work out differences as well as understand where each other is coming from. Place yourself in your sisters shoes and allow her to do the same. Also looking for professional family therapy may be helpful.
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Anonymous on Jul 8, 2020
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I found it best to embrace the fact that they are your little sister. They are going to be annoying. You are going to hate them at times, but I find it best to just accept it. Try to do something you both like together. It can be frustrating, but it can help. I also find it helps when they are starting to make you mad, tell them they are, and to take a step back for a little. I know little sisters are annoying, and sometimes we hate them, but at the same time they are family and you love them.
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Anonymous on Jul 8, 2020
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Reflect on what is making you feel this way, your sister's actions could be based on something she is having a hard time with. Is it worth finding out, spending more time with her to figure out exactly what is making you feel this way? As well as recognizing her intentions and what would make you feel better? Is there support that you could offer to this person and if so how would you go about it. At the end of the day, this is your family, you don't get to choose your family, so finding common ground can help.
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Empatheticcounsellor1 on Jul 17, 2020
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Think about the reason which makes you feel that way? Is there anyway you can change it. For example, talking with her about it so that she will know. Who knows, you two might find a way to compromise each other. You can talk with your parents or family about the issue by having peaceful talk. One great way to fight the hate is love and gratefulness. Writing or saying things you are grateful about her might help too. Like, I feel thankful that she is here, she is good at that and so on. I don’t know the exact situation but Hope these are helpful.
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Anonymous on Jul 29, 2020
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In a lot of situations, there are reasons and feelings behind hating someone. Some of the reasons can be conscious, but others can also be subconscious feelings. These feelings could be jealousy, hurt, pain, anger, mistrust, and so forth. Specifically regarding the situation of hating your little sister, the first step to take would be understanding why you hate her. Tackling those feelings will help get to the next step. After understanding why you hate her, try to see through her eyes. Empathizing with her might help you understand her better. Additionally, having an open conversation with her about both of your feelings can lead to creating resolutions. Sometimes, compromise is necessary in these situations (e.g. letting the little sister watch t.v. for 10 minutes of your time so she can finish your show). Overall, these are probably the most essential steps to take in order to stop hating your little sister.
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CEEJay101 on Aug 9, 2020
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First of all, take a deep breath. She made you feel mad, maybe even furious. It is totally okay to feel angered by a little sibling. And everyone fights with their siblings at one time or another! Why exactly are you mad at her? What did she do to make you feel this way? Is there anything that you can do that can make your relationship better? Is there anything she can do that can make it better? Can you talk it through with her and come to an agreement? You know your situation the best, and you are the only one who can fix it. Just breath!
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ingeniousBeauty4518 on Sep 9, 2020
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to stop hating your little sister is to remember you are someone she looks up to a lot. Even if she seems so so annoying at times, she only wants to be like you and sees you as her role model. if something was to ever happen to her i’m sure you’d be devastated and tomorrow is never promised so cherish moments you have with your family even if they get on your last nerves all the time. because in the end of the day i’m sure you love them dearly and would be heartbroken without them! she probably just wants to be closer friends!
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Anonymous on Oct 17, 2020
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Ask yourself a question, why do you hate her , if required talk to your parents about it , maybe you will find your answer , ask yourself the reason ,why is it that you feel uncomfortable with your sister , try spending some time alone , it's normal for siblings to fight and get annoyed by each other , but you should not forget about the love , no one can love you like your own sibling do , as you mentioned that you hate your little sister , try spending some more time with her , neglect all her mischiefs , laugh along her , talk to her about how you are getting annoyed by her , try building a healthy relation
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Anonymous on Nov 4, 2020
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Oh I’m been there. Just wishing they would stop. But you need to learn to love them. Cause no one in this entire universe is perfect. They may bring you to the verge of eruption of madness but at some point you will need to forgive and to accept what has been, with what is now. So for those who don’t have siblings see those around you as family cause we are all human beings and we all deserve respect and forgiveness. Hate people say is a strong word and when hating someone even being our little sister we must learn to let go and bring ourselves to peace. Well that’s what I got. I hope you can make amends with your sister. :)
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Anonymous on Nov 19, 2020
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Little siblings can be a heck of an annoyance sometimes. I can't tell if you're talking about a child sibling or an adult sibling, Because dealing with each are way different. Little siblings are obnoxious and unmanageable sometimes and at times the only thing to do would be to remove yourself from the situation enough to get rid of the negative emotions. If this means spending all the time she's awake in your room, so be it. If this is an adult sibling, it might be best to take a break from any conflict and resort to the "silent treatment" until things cool off
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