How to make your parents stop arguing?
bambooPanda15
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Feb 13, 2016
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Try to talk tot them about it. It may be hard to get them to listen but trying your best can help a lot
Steelymic
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Feb 14, 2016
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You could try talking to them one on one and help them understand how their arguing makes you feel. Hopefully this will give them a different perspective
happyApple83
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Mar 3, 2016
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I don't know that there is a way to make our parents stop arguing, but it may be helpful to tell them how the arguing makes us feel. This may get them to stop, slow down, or argue behind closed doors.
VinnyBean
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Mar 11, 2016
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You really can't make them stop. Maybe you can talk to them and let them know how you feel when they argue?
LucyCat20
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Mar 12, 2016
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watch a movie that you can all enjoy together, only after both sides have cooled down for a while.
zaix
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Mar 13, 2016
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There isn't a way that you can just make them stop arguing, but you can start by letting them know how it bothers you or how it makes them feel when they argue, it all depends on the situation at hand.
Zohaash
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Mar 18, 2016
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you cant really do that.
Meowkindcatmeow
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Mar 22, 2016
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Try and ask each parent separately what is really bothering them. People lash out when under a lot of pressure and being able to reflect on what the real cause is will help them actually address the issue.
Anonymous
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Apr 1, 2016
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Set up family things to do. Help them enjoy each others company. If they enjoy your company then theyll enjoy it together and already share something. Which is great.
Anonymous
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Apr 1, 2016
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If you get really upset when your parents fight, you might want to talk to them about your feelings. Sometimes, parents don't realize that their arguing makes kids feel upset. If you tell them how you feel, they'll probably try to stop or at least explain to you why they are disagreeing.
moonwalker27
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Apr 8, 2016
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You can write a letter about how you feeling when they're arguing and put it on their room or give it to them. I think they would stop if they understand how you feeling about that.
Anonymous
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Apr 30, 2016
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Arguing parents are a sad nightmare. I would wake up in the middle of the night from the screams they would yell at each other, and it'd hurt me deeply to watch the two people I love fight with each other. I could go on and on- but presenting a solution would be more helpful than just rambling. Make your parents do little things together- it doesn't have to be anything big, something small like eating dinner would be perfectly fine. Baby steps. You'd soon see that just by being in the same room together and seeing each other make anything effort to try to improve their marriage, a sense of understanding would build. I hope this helped :)
kaykayfryee
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May 4, 2016
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Tell them that it's affecting you and not just them, Tell them that you want them to stop fighting because you don't want them to split up, it won't only suck for them but it'll effect everyone around them
InsightfulFunnies
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May 6, 2016
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There really is nothing you can do without making it end badly. Your parents are grown ups and are responsible for their own actions. The best thing to do in a situation like that is NOTHING!
princesslistener2047
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May 6, 2016
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Talk to them about how it is making you feel as there child. Maybe they don't know how you feel or isn't aware of all the arguing until someone says something.
HollSS
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May 8, 2016
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You can't. Their relationship is complicated and exists apart from you, their arguments are not your fault and no-one but your parents can fix whatever's happening in their relationship. Just try to be there for both parents and remember it's as tough for them as it is for you.
SimplyBeing
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May 8, 2016
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I am sorry your parents are fighting and that you feel like you have to help them stop. The truth is that we can't control anyone else. We can control how we respond to a situation. The fights must be scary to you. What I have is only a suggestion and it may not fit for you. After a fight and everyone is calm, and you think it is safe, you can say how their fighting makes you feel. If it isn't safe for you to talk to them you can talk to another safe adult. You deserve to have your feelings heard. I wish you didn't have to struggle with this and I hope your parents can understand how their fighting impacts you. I wish you peace ~J
brilliantSunshine52
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May 13, 2016
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This is something you can never do there is no point trying to place your self in the middle it is something that only they 2 can fix between themselves as it there relationship and from my own experience it usually makes you feel worse.
yasminmarie
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May 14, 2016
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Unfortunately there is nothing you can do, my parents used to argue a lot and it would sometime get so far. But they stopped and even when they fight now it's about the little things after a few minutes or hours they get back on track, I guess you just have to give a little bit time. Stay strong !
elliejade
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May 14, 2016
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You can't make them stop arguing, but when they have calmed down, talking to them about how you feel when they argue may somewhat help. If you're not overly keen on that idea for any reason, you can talk to a listener on here, or someone who you can trust like a teacher or another relative, perhaps a friend.
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