How to make your parents listen to you?
Anonymous
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May 14, 2016
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Listen to them till the end and try to not interrupt them, and after they're done talking tell them that it's their time to listen to you without interrupting.
skylerraber1234
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Aug 2, 2016
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Speaking on behalf of most parents, trust is how you get your parents to listen to you. How can they believe or listen to you if you have a high record of lying. Also, using "I" statement such as, I feel like you did this and this is why. When you yell it triggers your brain to put on a defense mechanism and they won't be as open to suggestion.
generousWaterfall39
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Dec 13, 2016
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There are no guarantees that someone will change their perspective, but in my personal experience one stands a greater chance by following a few simple steps. Set aside some time with them without distractions so they realize the importance of the issue. When you have a conversation, know what you would like to communicate in a calm, clear manner. Remain respectful and set the stage by letting them know it is not your desire to argue. It is to be open and honest. If things feel as though they are getting a little off track, suggest everyone take a break for a short period of time. The goal is to be heard as a responsible, articulate person. If you accomplish these goals, you are already doing well. Be proud of your communication skills and utilize them consistently.
AmazonianPanda610
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Jan 24, 2017
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Talk to your parents in an environment that provides no distractions and speak confidently but respectfully, get your point across in a tone that doesn't come across as rude or demanding.
Anonymous
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Mar 6, 2017
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I know this isn't exactly what you want to hear, but you can't make anybody listen to you. You can try getting another family member or a trusted adult to tell them what you are trying to let them know because sometimes they hear it better coming from another person. I know it's hard, but no matter how much you scream and yell at a person, they have to want to listen to you. You can't make them. I know it sucks, but it will get better!
InsertYouNameHere
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Jan 16, 2018
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It's more about understanding each other. try to express yourself in a respectful manner, try not to trigger defensive reaction and try to truly connect with your parents. I believe that mutual understanding is key to this
Sunshine444
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Mar 5, 2018
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Decide a particular time and day when you know your parents are free and relax. If it is very important and urgent tell them frankly that you need their time to discuss important matter. be prepare what you exactly need to express. Be ready to answer their questions. Also do not take pressure or stress. They are your parents and surely they will listen to you.
EmpathicPikachu
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May 11, 2020
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Generation gap or sometimes other factors can sometimes lead to communication issues between parents and kids. As their child, it'd help you great deal if you understand your parents by thinking yourself in their shoes as to why they are not listening to you. You can ask yourself if what you are asking is too much or if you are just unable to communicate to your parents. Understanding the situation better will help you. After this, you can work on the situation. If all is well, you can talk to your parents in a manner which can deliver your message to them in a calm manner. Its hard to stay calm in these situations but it all depends on how you act as a person. If still in doubt, feel free to talk with someone you trust or a listener here. Stay safe! :)
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