How to convince my mother not to criticize me all the time? Talking just does not work.
heartsNcupcakes
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Sep 14, 2015
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Sometimes you just have to be adamant and stand your ground. Show her how much her criticism is affecting your overall growth and progress. I had been experiencing that a lot with my boyfriend and mom so I came up with a solution. If they have any criticisms to make, try to write one per day, through text or email. Just for a week. It was effective (not at first of course) and through reminding and time and consistency it all worked out. Dont let your moms criticism discourage you though. I know a lot of us have been there and its not easy...Thats what we're here for.
EnchantingFairy
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Jan 5, 2016
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That's a tough one: parents are hard! Usually, we want them to hear us and to work with us. But that doesn't always happen. I found that working on removing myself from the situation works well for me. When she criticizes, I nod, or thank her kindly, then I make up an excuse to leave (my phone rang, I really have to pee...). If I can't leave, I listen, breather deeply, then when I can leave, I journal, or call a friend. You're right that talking doesn't work (it almost makes it worse!). Since I can't change her, I learned to take care of myself in the moments following her comments. Hang in there!
MayaCarino
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Jun 27, 2017
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If talking with another doesn't work, I would move away from persons who constantly criticise me for who I am, even if that person or persons are my parents. Best stay away from all the negativity!
Aaliya24
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Mar 15, 2015
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Your mom cares about yu she isn't critisizing yu. Well if yu feel so talk to her patiently and explain her. She will understand if yu do so. Take care :)
Stainedglass
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Jun 8, 2015
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Perhaps write her a letter to tell her how you feel? I used to do that when i felt too timid to have a conversation with her.
OQuinn
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Jun 12, 2015
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If talking doesn't help, try making her realize that what she's saying in not the best thing ... Try something like : "Does that make you feel better?" or "You shouldn't put someone/body down to feel better about you/yours." She'll realize what she did, or at least bring her back to her sense and loosen up a bit.
lilscotsangel
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Nov 23, 2015
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Do things to make her take notice. Do whatever makes you happy. Yes she's your mum, but it's your life
Aukaay
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Dec 22, 2015
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Just don't feed into it. Just say "Ok" or "If you think X is wrong then find a new solution (emphasis on the new) on how to fix it."Say that in a non engaged tone and hopefully she'll leave you alone
Anonymous
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Dec 27, 2015
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Try to make her realize that she is doing the wrong thing by criticizing you by saying, " does that make you feel better?"
Anonymous
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Mar 14, 2016
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By not arguing back all the time. If your mom is criticizing just tell her "i'm sorry" or "i'll be good next time, i promise" this will surely stop her and ya don't forgrt to tell your mom how much you love her and she looks amazing😉
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