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How do I tell my parents I don't want to go to church?

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Telling your parents that you don't want to do something is difficult, especially when that something is an activity that your parents enjoy doing, and do on a daily basis. But, it is important to keep in mind that no matter how upset they may be, your parents are still your parents. And, despite your decision to not go to church, they are going to love you.
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Profile: GilesCorey
GilesCorey on Jan 27, 2017
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If you trust that your parents care about you and your feelings the main thing you need to struggle with is actually sitting down and getting the words out to your parents about why you don't want to go to church whether it's due to your personal religious beliefs, or simply due to it not being how you want to spend your Sundays. Actually being able to talk to your parents about things that are bugging you, from simple to complex subjects, is a very important aspect of young life.
Profile: CaringKylie
CaringKylie on Feb 5, 2017
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Be honest with them. If you have separate beliefs, it is best to tell them that. Parents want their children to succeed. Be kind while telling them, but tell them how you feel.
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Anonymous on Feb 12, 2017
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Let them know that you are questioning your faith and don't feel comfortable going to church for the time being. Try to talk maturely and logically about it so they are more lithely to want to understand where you are coming from.
Profile: patientMountain
patientMountain on Feb 17, 2017
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Open a dialogue with them. Tell them what you're feeling, and if you can, why you're feeling that way. Just be honest!
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Anonymous on Mar 18, 2017
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Unfortunately, there is no easy way to tell your family you don't want to go to church. Especially if you're young and if your family feels strongly about it. However, it is important to let them know how you feel so I would come right out and say it in the most respectful way possible.
Profile: LJSharp
LJSharp on Mar 23, 2017
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I understand that some parents can be very strict. But every strict parent does care about their children and I'm sure your parents care about you and they will be more than happy to listen to what you want. If you don't want to go to church then I would advise you sit them down and having a conversation with them about it. Explain to them how you feel and the reason why you don't want to attend church. I'm sure they'll listen to you.
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Anonymous on Apr 15, 2017
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You should try talking to them and making them understand why you don't want to go to church. You should try and show your point of view and what you belief. Don't have a fight and worsen the situation but talk to them calmly .
Profile: Cutetortoise02
Cutetortoise02 on Apr 28, 2017
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Respectfully and certainly. This can be a tough matter but you must set your foot down. If that is not what you believe you have the right to say so and not attend.
Profile: calmApple67
calmApple67 on Jun 7, 2017
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I've been raised to always respect your parents. Maybe start by telling them a few of your reasons. Developing your own spiritual practices is a personal journey. I'm sure your parent's would appreciate your honesty.
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