How do I deal with the pressure my parents put on me to be who they want vs. who I am?

It sounds like you are overwhelmed not having your parents on your side. What do you think your parents will say when you talk to them about how you really feel?

This is a problem that a lot of individuals face and I would like you to know that you are not alone in this fight. It is frustrating when your parents expect something of you and you have some other expectations for your life. The first thing to do is have an open and honest conversation with your parents. A lot of times we assume that our parents know what we want. One should remember that they should be able to advocate what they want. They should be able to give compelling answers to why they want to do what they want to do. It is natural for parents to be worried about their child's future and your parents might have reasons as to why they want you to pursue a certain field. Open communication is key.