How can I make a decision my family doesn't support without them getting angry?
Wes2
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Nov 4, 2014
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You can't control whether others get angry-- even your family. The best thing you can do is explain what feelings and facts led you to your decision, and express that you hope they will accept this. If it is this tough a decision to make, you can only be doing it for your own personal happiness. Express that to them, and tell them that they should always be in support of what makes you happy. That said, if they still choose to get angry, you cannot allow that to become your problem. You are doing what is best for you, and if they can't understand that, you don't need to absorb their negativity.
yourspirit97
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Nov 6, 2014
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Try explaining to them why you want it so much and why it is so important to you. Show them that this will make you happy and I am sure this will convince them. You're family loves you and even if they don't support you all the time, they always want what's best for you. The might not understand, that not always is the right thing for you, what they want for you, but if you explain it to them in a right way they will be by your side.
Kel4055
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Nov 12, 2014
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That's like trying to milk a cow but only one percent milk out of them instead of whole. It's going to happen, it sucks, but even after they're angry it doesn't mean you can't do things to lessen the blow afterwards. Just remember, it's better to ask forgiveness than permission.
Steph716
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Mar 15, 2015
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Try to make your family understand that your decision will make you happy. However, if they don't understand in the end, you have to see that this is your life and you have the power to make the best of it.
Libertad
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Apr 2, 2015
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Knowing that you're the one who is going to suffer or enjoy the consequences of your decisions. Take the responsibility of your own life, of your pain, of your joy. You understand their anger, it's time for them to understand you.
FeatherIce25
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Apr 9, 2015
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The key to any relation is better communication. Talk to your family about your reasons , explain them about the inspiration behind that decision. If you are passionate enough, they will understand.
ivysoul
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May 22, 2015
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Realize that it is your decision, and yes, they're your family but it is your life. They can help you, but cannot make decisions for you.
Anonymous
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Jun 30, 2015
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Consider yourself in their shoes. Be sensitive towards their feelings. Maybe they don't support your decision because there's more story to it than you think. Be sure to ask them why it's bothering them, confront them about their concerns. And then rethink it again. If you're 100% sure it's the right decision, assure them that it'll be alright. Good luck,buddy!
amazingCreature23
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Jan 25, 2016
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Show them your point of view and talk to them by showing them all perspectives. By making a decision and showing them it's a good thing then it could change their mind of what they thought about it in the beginning.
FlowerxChild
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Jun 14, 2016
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Sitting down with your family and talking it through, you must let them know. It's your life alone.
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