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How can I live the way I want to without disappointing my parents?

Profile: RueRose
RueRose on Jun 21, 2016
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First you should try to set your parents expectations low. Tell them you are only human and cant exactly do everything they want. Secondly, you should always feel proud of yourself, even if you fail your parents love you and will never be truly disappointed. Thirdly and finally you should come to terms that you will neer be perfect and from time to time you may fail and hence disappoint your parents but be assured you'll always come back up and no matter what they love you.
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Profile: CalmingBreeze16
CalmingBreeze16 on Aug 22, 2016
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In order to live a life of integration, you need to chose a course that suits you. To live your life 'as if", to make your parents happy, will gnaw at your soul and cause regret for you later in life
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Oct 11, 2016
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As long as you are trying hard in school and you are staying out of trouble, you will never disappoint them. They will always be proud of you.
Profile: mhiggins
mhiggins on Nov 8, 2016
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Your parents are supposed to be there for you,and support you no matter what. If living the way that makes them proud makes you unhappy, you shouldn't live like that. You should make yourself happy and if they can't accept the real you, then they shouldn't try to tell you how to live.
Profile: Josefina93
Josefina93 on Mar 6, 2017
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It's hard to live the way we want without disappointing anyone, we all have different ideas of what the best for ourselves or for others is. So try living they way you want, but also achieving certain things that your parents and you agree on. I guess at the end what our parents want is to see us happy, and if you're living the way you wanted to, you'll probably be happy.
Profile: MobileMentor
MobileMentor on Apr 4, 2017
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There's a tough balance between living your life and living the life your parents want for you. When all is said and done, all your parents want is for you to be happy. Have a talk to your parents about your mental health and the balance between work and play.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Feb 5, 2018
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If your parent genuinely cares for you and wants what best for you, then they will allow you to live life the way you choose. That is of course, after you move out and are able to support yourself. It's understandable to not want to disappoint your parents, but if something makes you happy, who are they to take that happiness from you or criticize you? More often than not they turn out to be supportive for your well being.
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