How can I get my parents to stop yelling at me for everything?
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Moderated by Smita Joshi, BA Psychology / MA / Advanced EFT Practitioner
Updated: Jun 2, 2022
Anonymous
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Dec 28, 2017
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As a parent of 6, I will say that honesty is first and foremost the importance of a respectful relationship. I tell the kids that I may be mad but I will respect the honesty. I am an advocate of eastern philosophy and believe that we need to let our kids make some mistakes because it's all part of the learning process. I do not spank my children and allow them to be a vital part of our household. Some parents are strict in their values and beliefs and this is where heads can butt.... Some especially teens are finding their own identities and parents tend to push their values onto kids and this is where and why they clash. It's a process and work for both the parents and kids, so be patient and HONEST and things should get better. Best of luck
Anonymous
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Jan 5, 2018
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Well you can sit with them and explain how bad you feel when they yell at you, once you do that they will know how badly they make you feel.
Anonymous
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Jan 6, 2018
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Depending on how old you are it’s honestly a part of growing up, I’ve been through it and so have a lot of others. Gain their trust! If you already have it then you’re on the right track.
Anonymous
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Jan 7, 2018
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Sometimes it isn't really your fault, and sometimes it isn't really their fault. Being a kid or a teen or a young adult is just always stressful. But if you can hold out for a little bit, if you can compromise on somethings, if you can find it in your heart to just let those past stupid fights go - you'll slowly become best friends with your parents. Just having good times with my parents at dinner or on the way to school, I can't tell you how much it'll mean to you. Don't instigate your parents and don't let them instigate you. Just go with the flow, trust me - everyone's been through it (including your mom and dad with your grandparents).
Anonymous
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Jan 19, 2018
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Simply talk to them and let them know that you can understand everything perfectly without yelling. communication is the key to everything.
Jasmine7860
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Jan 20, 2018
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By respecting their views and opinion and listening to it carefully. That way they will respect and honour you in return and do keep up your promise that earns the trust of the parents
MonicaQu
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Feb 3, 2018
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Your parents may be going through a lot of stress so sometimes they yell without noticing so maybe you could go to a quiet spot or just silently listen to what they say then later write down your thoughts so you can talk to them at a different time when they are calm.
Ashley132
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Feb 4, 2018
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Sit them down and explain to them how this is affecting you emotionally, don’t be afraid to speak :)
Anonymous
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Mar 3, 2018
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Remember to speak respectfully to them back and talk to them about why you dislike the way they speak to you.
magneticDog23
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Mar 8, 2018
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go out from home, just hang out and walking with my friends so I no need to meet my parents who always yelling at me
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