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How can I create new relationships with my siblings now that we're adults?

Profile: dadacult
dadacult on Sep 8, 2015
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try soft approaching. if you were close during childhood it makes it easier. if not, it's almost like making a friend. adults also make friends.
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Profile: Joeyxx
Joeyxx on Sep 11, 2014
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You can create new relationships with your siblings by taking "sibling" vacations when you guys all have break days, you can keep in contact, have a dinner together.
Profile: colorvegas
colorvegas on Oct 12, 2014
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I feel like i can try to talk to them more. I can also try and be more open and be more supporting of their choices. Also give them advice whenever they need it
Profile: RaleighC
RaleighC on Oct 23, 2014
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The best way to do this is to treat your sibling as though they are a new friend you are getting to know. Though you have a shared history, your sibling has certainly changed since he or she was young, just as you have! Spend time getting to know your sibling as the adult they are, and allow them to do the same with you.
Profile: Tatzilla
Tatzilla on Oct 25, 2014
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Baby steps. Show your interest by making an effort to spend more time doing awesome things with them. Do not overwhelm them, relationships come with trust and that is built over time.
Profile: PeterEngram
PeterEngram on Oct 26, 2014
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Find what new commons interests you have now that you're both adults. Age differences in pre-teen and teenage years can often create challenging relationships between siblings. Now that you're both out those crazy wonder years, your ability to share and connect will be much greater.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Oct 30, 2014
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Speak to your siblings and explain that you would like to create stronger sibling bonds with them, sit them down and speak about it
Profile: Charity0
Charity0 on Nov 2, 2014
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Whether good or bad, you have a lot of precious memories that you share with your sibling(s). Remember that this will always bond you as family so don't be scared about saying what's on your mind! If you feel a little shy, how about looking for a shared hobby like reading, watching films or sports? After my younger brother and I became adults we ended up hang out at his house or mine from time to time. We'd order in and watch films and that really made a difference to our relationship just by the time we'd put in sitting next to each other or eating together.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Nov 2, 2014
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I would say it is best to start with the idea of buidling a friendship first. It will take the pressure of being ''siblings'' off your shoulders, you'll probably feel more relaxed about it and so will they once that intial pressure has been lifted. Work on that friendship and on creating that sibling bond together. Don't expect things to just fall into place straight away, understand that it will take time.
Profile: openmindkindheart
openmindkindheart on Nov 19, 2014
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Simple answer, just talk to them. I am one of six siblings with the majority of them being older. As a kid my relationship was not that strong with them, they were all out of the house starting their own lives. As I grew older and matured, our conversations went from meaningless to more in depth and relevant. Communication is the basis of all relationships, if you want to start a new relationship just start by talking with them and expressing genuine interest. You are siblings, there will always be a connection between you and them, it is just a matter of acknowledging and expanding that connection.
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