Why i cannot be skinny like every girl ?

I relate to this so much because this is something I struggle with and think about too. The reality is that you are your worst critic, and that no one else notices your flaws as much as you do. Most girls I know are self conscious about some aspect of their appearance, including myself. Learning to love yourself and do what is best for you can be super difficult and challenging, but support and love and self love can really help. Focusing on what you love about yourself instead of the negative is good. Also making positive comparisons (i.e. 'wow she loves reading just as much as I do!') is better than negative comparisons that make you feel upset.

I understand that it may seem like every other girl and woman has the "perfect" body, and you may feel like you are ugly, wrong and an outlier. But as another girl, I can tell you that not every girl is skinny. In magazines, almost every photo is Photo shopped or edited in some way, making everybody seem skinny. Remember, your body is beautiful, and just because society doesn't see it that way doesn't mean its not true. We girls are held to impossible beauty standards since literally the time we are born, and its really difficult. But you ARE beautiful