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What is the best way to get over a crush?

Profile: Stephanieb
Stephanieb on Dec 31, 2014
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What I did, is I found things to distract myself from thinking about it, doing things that stimulated my mind! Video games, Phoning and seeing friends, anything else that got me out the house really!
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Profile: Kaylei72
Kaylei72 on Mar 26, 2015
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Trying to move on. You can do other activities that will get that crush off of your mind. There are several activities. Such as sports or drawing
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Apr 10, 2015
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Talk to them see how you feel about them, their personality the way they act around there friend how they treat them. After that hanging out with them see if they are right for you.
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Anonymous on Jul 7, 2015
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By not thinking of him/her, try meeting new people and going to different places, making new friendships, avoid going to places where they can be
Profile: TheGreyFixer
TheGreyFixer on Jan 22, 2016
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Avoid them like the plague. Assert your self-worth: you do not have to have them fawning over you in order to be a happy, independent person. Crushes and relationships can be messy and painful, but in the end, you're the one in control. Good luck.
Profile: yourfriendzahra
yourfriendzahra on Jan 24, 2016
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In my experience, I've had to just ride it out and wait for it to go away, but I also realized that as I focused more on loving myself, that is when I began to forget about my crush. I became aware of when I did something because of my crush such as dressing to impress, acting differently around them or just feeling insecure around them. At these moments, when I realized what I was doing I would ask myself what I am doing. I realized I had nobody to impress and I am the only one who should care about how I look. I would definitely recommend space. It is a lot harder to get over someone if you are always with them. I got over my crush after a whole three months of simply not seeing them and if you think you cannot ever get over someone, then at least find love for yourself, you'll find that others are attracted to people with self confidence. Feel good in your own shoes and often things will improve from there.
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Anonymous on Jan 28, 2016
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Accept that there is no possibility of a relationship if he/she doesn't reciprocate your feelings and then go out and look for somebody who can , instead of wasting time on a crush. If you're fawning over a crush it sounds as though you're lonely , so find people to help combat that loneliness. 7cups listeners can do that too!
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Anonymous on Jan 28, 2016
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A crush is a natural thing. Unless you have an unhealthy obsession I'd say there is no need to get rid of it.
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Anonymous on Jan 29, 2016
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Approach them about it, and see if the feelings are reciprocated, this way you have closure and can pursue the relationship.
Profile: Red4ever30
Red4ever30 on Feb 3, 2016
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Surrounding yourself with friends and family to create a positive energy around you. Also taking it one day at a time allowing yourself to heal.
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