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How do I leave a toxic relationship?

Profile: ambiguities
ambiguities on Jul 27, 2017
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Recognize that you deserve better than how you are being treated. Self-care is the utmost important thing, so it is essential to remember that you deserve to be happy. Also, try to confide in someone close to you and realize that it is okay to reach out for help.
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Profile: Kerry88
Kerry88 on Aug 19, 2017
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I know how hard it is. You have to ask yourself if staying in the relationship is worth it anymore. You have to consider whether you can put up with this long term and if you will be happy. If all the answers are no then it has to end for your own well being.
Profile: Georgia
Georgia on Aug 27, 2017
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Toxic relationships are just that, toxic. They're unhealthy for you both mentally and physically so leaving one is the best route. Of course, leaving a relationship is hard, regardless of whether you're leaving a parent, sibling, lover or friend. The best way to leave this is to explain that you can no longer be in this relationship anymore due to certain reasons, and then cut off communication. Yes, it'll hurt, but in time it's better for you ❤
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Aug 31, 2017
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In order to leave a toxic relationship, what I ended up doing was reaching out to my family and friends, who were able to help me to leave. Another thing I would suggest would be to call any of the crisis lines that deal with this type of situation, and if it's really bad don't hesitate to call the police and / or go to a shelter. I know how terrifying it is to leave, but believe me it will end up being worth it. If you aren't quite ready to leave just yet, then maybe you could start gradually making a plan to improve your self-confidence and independance, and look into what options are available for you in your area. No matter what, make sure to keep yourself (and any children you may have) safe first! Thinking of you and wishing you all the best.
Profile: neverendingKermit85
neverendingKermit85 on Sep 1, 2017
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Just leave. If that relationship doesnt give you a happiness or positive impact or hold you from progress in life, it is not a good relationship. There is no good keeping a toxic relationship. You deserve to be loved and happy.
Profile: latticinio
latticinio on Nov 16, 2017
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This is a tough one. Personally, I've been stuck in many toxic relationships due to not wanting to upset my partner. One thing I suggest doing is get support from your friends and family. Let them know what's going on and ask for support as you step up and end things. It will be extremely hard for you to do this, as toxic relationships tend to make you feel stuck and dependent on the partner, but I truly believe you can do it.
Profile: whimsicalLove17
whimsicalLove17 on Nov 18, 2017
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This one is difficult , because I myself have a sibling who is dealing with this herself , So for me to do this would be difficult , Although I'd have to think about myself and my safety really and also ask a question like how is this benefiting me.
Profile: Kelsey515
Kelsey515 on Nov 22, 2017
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Leaving a toxic relationship can be hard, but ultimately you will find that once you are out of that toxic relationship you will feel so much better. To leave a toxic relationship you might want to write down some of the things or problems that you have and are bothering you and making the relationship toxic, then try to piece together what you might say to that person, and writing it down always helps too. Once you feel like you are ready to end the relationship and talk to them about it, with the pros and cons kept in mind, then the best thing to do is just go for it because sometimes we get anxious or too nervous to go through with the plan, so just sit them down and explain the issues but remember to be assertive and calm too. I know personally that it is hard to leave a toxic relationship but it will only help you, don't let the toxic people in your life drag you down. Good luck and just hope for the best.
Profile: StefanDragan
StefanDragan on Nov 28, 2017
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By telling yourself that you deserve better, you want better, you can have better and you will find better. If you can't say all of the above, then maybe you still reasons to believe that a toxic relationship is still the best option that you currently have.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Nov 29, 2017
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Sometimes it's hard to leave a toxic relationship, depending on your situation of course. (Depending on the reason that its toxic) sometimes being honest is the best policy, but of course that won't work for everyone since every relationship and situation is different.
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