How can I support someone with an eating disorder without making them feel embarrassed or patronized?

Let them know that they can say as much or little as they'd like. Ensure them that they are perfect in every way and do not need to change a thing. Discuss and focus on the positive attributes about them and just let them know that they're not alone.

By making them feel listened to, supported, and important. Often people with eating disorders also suffer from depression and low self-worth, their eating disorder may be a way to cope with these difficult feelings, or may be a way of punishing themselves as they believes they deserve to be punished or don`t deserve to be happy and healthy. Reminding them they deserve to be happy and healthy can really help them.

Be honest, tell them you don't understand but you want to, and that you want to be there for them. Maybe ask if there's anything they want you to read up on to help you understand more.

Remember that what this friend is going through is more common than it may be talked about. You can let them do all the talking and just be there to listen, a shoulder to cry on, and be as supportive as you can. :) When somebody is going through an ED, sometimes the best thing you can do for them is listen. I hope your friend recovers soon! You're both in my heart!

People with eating disorder tends to think a lot about what people say about them. The slightest hint will make them think that they are fat and ugly, so it is good to mind about how you say things to them... let them think for themselves, and try not to touch the sensitive issue if you don't have a clear idea about what you can do about it

First thing one can do to show support for someone struggling with an eating disorder is by being empathetic towards their situation. Second, have a discussion with them about what situations in their life have brought on this struggle. Third, be a good listener. Offer and assist them in using resources, hotlines, support communities, and other methods of support. And, finally, remind them that they are not alone. You are there for them when they need your support and empathy. Knowing they have you there to offer them continual support and a listening ear will be comforting for them.