I've been a victim of domestic abuse, but I don't know how to get out of the situation, what should I do?
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Updated: Jun 4, 2018
Anonymous
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Nov 4, 2014
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I'm sorry to hear that. I cannot help you with this, but here is the the domestic abuse hotline (insert phone number).
Anonymous
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Nov 4, 2014
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It is hard to get out of a relationship where there is domestic abuse. It can be financial, emotional, physical just to name a few. I went through a similar situation. It is very important to keep strong and have hope that the experience will end. Also, having support from family and friends or at least someone to talk to is important. If it weren't for my parents and my strong determination that I can live a life without him I wouldn't of gotten out. Also, I found that when you are studying or working it helps because it gives you the freedom and independence as well as confidence. If you cant find a job try to volunteer. Keeping your mind busy and your life helps.
Dailydaydreama
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Nov 17, 2014
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Connecting to a support service can provide helpful information and the people who work there can take the steps with you that you want to do so that your not doing them alone !
Anonymous
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Jan 8, 2015
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Report it to the police and they can help you get out of the situation and give you the right information to help successfully stay out of it.
Anonymous
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May 15, 2015
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Cant tell you what you need to do, You are in charge of your life and know what you need better then us telling you. Please seek your law enforcement or out reach for more help.
StrawberryMuffin
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Aug 24, 2015
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Domestic abuse is serious, and dangerous. The most important thing to do is get to safety as soon as you can. Whether it's with a friend or family member, or if this isn't an option, there are shelters and hostels which can provide you with a safe place to collect your thoughts and make your choices with a clear head. Consider contacting the police, or if you don't feel ready for that or decide against it, instead look for support in your local area which can help you get back on your feet. Make a plan, and deal with one thing at a time. However you plan to move forward, always ensure that your safety is you top priority, and look to those you love to support you as you tackle this situation.
AirshipCommunity
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Nov 13, 2015
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I was in an abusive relationship a few years ago. I lived with my abusive partner and did not have my own car, which made it difficult to escape. I was also very depersonalized due to the abuse. Finally after a bad incident, I texted a friend and she came and got me. I strongly recommend reaching out to friends and hotlines. You can do it! You can be free! You will get better, I promise
Sassy001
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Mar 17, 2016
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First,go to a safe place if you are currently in any danger of being abused.If you don't have a safe place to go to,there are shelters for victims of domestic violence.There are many crisis hotlines like Women Against Abuse that can offer help and support.Finding support whether with a family member,friend,therapist can help.Talking to other survivors of domestic abuse can help also.Realize you are the victim and it isn't your fault.No one deserves to be abused.There is never a reason you should be abused.You have worth and deserve to be loved and respected.
Anonymous
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Aug 29, 2016
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If you are danger, call 911. If you are save at the present moment call the domestic violence support line. You have the right to be save from hurt, harm and danger and our local police are the first place to begin. You matter!!!
Teddy522
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Jun 12, 2017
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If you feel you are in immediate danger please don`t hesitate to call emergency services. For anything less urgent, there are very useful helplines out there! Remember you have a right to feel safe.
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