Why does the whole concept of living have to be so hard on us all?

It is a mystery and the purposes human have created to make it seem like it has a point and distract from its mystery are not important goals 99% of the time. Therefore it becomes a very hard and tiring concept for us.

“Nothing in the world is worth having or worth doing unless it means effort, pain, difficulty… I have never in my life envied a human being who led an easy life. I have envied a great many people who led difficult lives and led them well.” ― Theodore Roosevelt If living life were easy, I don't think that it would be really worth doing.

Existensialism is a hard subject. It depends on how you were borned actually... Rich or poor? Healthy or disabled? Tall or small? IT DOESNT MATTER. Living is hard, but have you ever seen an ant rolling a big pile of food up the hill? Weak people think life is 'hard'. You see the cards you were dealt with and play with them. There is no 'concept'. You get up every morning, have three meals, one good trip to the loo and you go to sleep. Rinse and repeat. For the rest of your life. You just get older and smarter, nothing to it. Enjoy every day like its your last because you know... It might be?! Be a good person. Eat good food. Take care of your body. Love people. Do good things and deeds. And when someone out there draws the line, they will say; 'yep, they lived' :D hope this answer helped.

Actually it isn't that hard! If we take it all in a positive way it won't be that hard! We often indulge ourselves over thinking about the little mischief and hardships of life and that eventually lands us up in a situation where we find life to be so hard. Just let it go and go with the flow of life to know how beautiful it is!

While we are driven by instincts just like any other animal, to survive, reproduce and flourish, the modern human has less use of these traits. As such, consider your feelings towards living as a product of evolution, and reconsider the question.

Because we live according to what society wants us to be and to have. We think that it's a battlefield everyday, fighting for our problems and such. Be you, seek help because you are not alone. We were created for a purpose and that is to be the best that we can be as possible. Never think of having to quit because life is only once given. Make your stay in this planet worthwhile by doing good, being good, and teaching others to do good, even if you will receive nothing in return or worse, even the opposite of it.