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Why does no one care about me?

Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Sep 4, 2018
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It's not that no one cares about you but maybe who you want to care about you just doesn't seem to so you feel that way. Maybe that person does care but not as much as you'd want them to. Also, who needs people? You should care about yourself and that is all that you need in life. Caring and loving yourself would make you free from all other people who make you the way you feel. You should be able to talk to yourself and be your own friend to be happy. That way you aren't dependant on other people to make you feel good or bad.
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Profile: cucumberjones
cucumberjones on Nov 7, 2018
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I struggle with this myself. You just wish somebody would ask how your day was, like genuinely wanted to know and not a pleasantry. I cannot pretend to know your circumstances but I do believe somebody does care about you. It may not be in the way that you want but you have to know that somebody does care even if you cannot see it. Sure, it would be easy if they told you directly or better yet, showed it. I spend most of my day wishing that somebody would care for me the way I do others and it leaves me depleted and exhausted. I know people do care about me, but at the end of the day it feels so lonely. It is not easy but also know that those you care about will care back. Continue to love those around you and it will come back to you, if only in time.
Profile: KaoriShimizu
KaoriShimizu on Jan 21, 2019
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Perhaps this is rather cliche, but there is ALWAYS going to be someone, many in fact, who do and will care about you. I for one, care about you. I show this by responding to your question. Some people may give the impression that they don't care, but maybe they just don't understand how to express it. Or perhaps they have no clue that you feel distressed. The best one to care for you, is yourself. When you care for yourself and are secure, you tend to feel less alone. Reaching out more may help you see just how important others think you are. You are welcome to reach out to a trained active listener on here, or perhaps a therapist or counselor.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Sep 7, 2021
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I can see that you feel very sad regarding this. I’m sure that there are many people in your life that care about you and may just not show it in the way that you want to see it. Have you tried sitting down with your family and friends and talking to them about how you feel? They may not realise how you’re feeling and one quick chat could make them aware of how you’re feeling and then they might present their feelings more clear to you. That way you can feel like the people around you care about you
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