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Why do people think that I'm depressed to get attention?

Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jan 12, 2016
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Because some time they see this outgoing person and have issues of their own so it's easier for them to put some one else down then face their issues.
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Profile: ESL
ESL on Jun 7, 2016
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In my experience, it can sometimes be because we DO need attention, and needing attention should never be seen as a bad thing. We all need attention, care, and support in order to cope effectively with our emotions, especially when we are dealing with something as difficult as depression. Alternatively, it may be because of the stigma surrounding mental health issues, or because of a misunderstanding on the part of those who imagine you're seeking their attention. They may also have their own issues that they're dealing with which cause them to lash out at you unnecessarily. Whatever the reason, please know that this is definitely not a "you" problem! This is someone else's problem.
Profile: HappyPlaces
HappyPlaces on May 28, 2015
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Some people might have issues with the idea of things like that. Especially with people on the internet and in their weird "Cool kids trends" that involve pretending to have mental issues that make people perceive different veiws.
Profile: HopeXoxo
HopeXoxo on Dec 22, 2015
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Because they are uneducated about depression. I think a lot of people are afraid of depression as well, so they aren't sure how to respond.
Profile: Nithou
Nithou on Dec 29, 2015
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Most of the people don't understand depression, and it's a difficult thing to talk about, they are not really judging you, it's just something you don't understand when you're not going through it. Just acknowledge that they might misunderstand you and what you're going through.
Profile: DiamonddogLikesNutella
DiamonddogLikesNutella on May 30, 2016
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There are lots of negative connotations associated with depression, such as attention-seeking. This is due to some people being uneducated and not understanding depression for what it is. Usually these people have only seen social media where people have uploaded pictures of their scars or dramatic paragraphs where they romanticise mental illness, which leads them to believe that this is what everyone suffering from depression is like, rather than the minority.
Profile: campfiremarshmallows27
campfiremarshmallows27 on Aug 15, 2016
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Sadly there is a minority of people in the world who pretend to have a mental disorder to gain attention which can cause even more stigma against depression and the people who struggle with it. The best way to deal with it is to explain to these people that you have genuine struggles with it and need support.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Sep 19, 2016
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A lot of people who think people who say they have depression are asking for attention because they do not understand it themselves. They do not realize that it is a disease that should not be taken lightly.
Profile: Jacko2304
Jacko2304 on Feb 19, 2018
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Some people may not understand depression so they think you are doing it for attention. Some people are just awful though. It helps to ignore those people and focus on the people that really care.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Sep 21, 2015
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When people don't understand they make up excuses to account for people's behaviour. Sadly this is one thing they assume which is WRONG!
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