Why do I hate myself so much?

Loving yourself isn’t easy! But you must alway try, wether you feel better about the way you did your make up or your new haircut. If you don’t like something Fix it! But everyday wake up and look at yourself and pick out one thing that you love about your self it can be small or big and sooner or later you’ll love every bit of you

i dont know why i hate myself so much. like i hate me more than anything in this world. i feel so useless and delusional for dreaming something that people say it's impossible to reach. i feel like no one ever here, no one ever try to support me, they just watch me suffer.

Because as a humand being you tend to just remember the worst things and because in human nature we keep on comparing ourselves to one another

I hate myself so much for the way I’ve been treated by people I love. I got blamed for my mother being ill everyday of my teen life by my stepdad, I got cheated on by my ex partner numerous times & I just feel worthless and alone. Happiness is all a lie

It could be a symptom of depression. Something may have happened in your life that has created a sense of guilt. Chatting to someone can help you recognise when and how the hateful feelings started. Together, you can work towards loving yourself again. x

we hate our-self so much because we dont meet our own expectations. when we are unable to get what we want and see others having it then we feel worst... and the condition of not able to get over something and not able to get something in-spite of all our efforts..

Self-love and self-acceptance can be a long process and will take some time, but don't worry! Soon you'll get to a place where you won't hate yourself

If this hatred is coming from something that you've done that made you feel guilty, try to reach some kind of closure about it to lift this burden of hate off your shoulders. You can do that by talking about your feelings with someone here on 7 Cups or someone close that you trust.

I hate myself and every morning what’s the point of getting up or like your ugly or fat etc. but I’m kinda a hypocrite because if I hear people saying that they hate themselves or something like that I’ll tell them they shouldn’t think that even though I think of that all the time I hate looking in the mirror because all I see is a fat ugly pig I cry myself to sleep but I’m too scared to tell my parents because I feel like they are going to say “Oh it’s just a phase or oh it’s hormones!”

Self loathing is a natural part of life, but one day you will find something you like, and then love and your whole perspective will change!